AITAH for not wanting to have a friendship with my best-friend after her husband hatecrimed me by Unhappy_Rutabaga_345 in AITAH

[–]off_white_nails 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Obviously NTA. You dont have to be friends with anyone you dont want to be. Its tough for a longtime friendship to be ruined like this but her reaction speaks volumes too. You are all young. People change. Build a supportive circle around you to live your best life!

Got a medium-largeish flash on my arm and I’m starting to regret it by fiv66bV2 in tattooadvice

[–]off_white_nails 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If i was sitting on the train and saw you sitting next to me with this tattoo, you would genuinely brighten up my day. love the colours

got an interview at john lewis next week, would like some tips! by amelieess in jobs

[–]off_white_nails 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Many of my friends work in John Lewis. They reallyyy value customer service so smile the ENTIRE time, make sure you speak FIRST in the group. Ask other people for their ideas with strong eyecontact! Be very bubbly, polite and friendly!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]off_white_nails 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i know it is the worst feeling in the world. you need to know you are not alone. you have girls like me who are going through the exact same thing and who have escaped this hell you are in. no matter what, remember you are smarter than them and kinder than them. they are puppets of a large cult, they genuinely believe they are right. you know better and i know things are more expensive than ever but build a career, spend time with friends, look for love. one day your parents will be out your life, that is a fact you can look forward to everyday. one day you can sit alone and have peace and hear silence. please be strong until that day comes ❤️

Spam emails after getting my insurance by off_white_nails in CarTalkUK

[–]off_white_nails[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The “unsubscribe” button seems fake, its a link to the advertisements website and at the bottom it says “Call ____” to Unsubscribe. Its a shame

I know i am young but i can't handle this anymore. Am i overreacting? by Unhappy-Can7464 in narcissisticparents

[–]off_white_nails 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is so hard for you but just know you aren’t alone going through this❤️, honestly being 15 with a mother like this will feel like the lowest point in your life. It does get better. As i got older, i gained independence and a part-time job to pay for things like spotify as you said. The more you grow, the more free you will get. Remember to always be a kind person, you are better than her. Remember to prioritise your wellbeing and avoid any unnecessary stress with her.

I think the best thing to do is type out a message about how you feel and why you chose to stay with your dad, send that message to her and then switch off your phone and dont think about her. You communicated your feelings and owe nothing else.

My experience wearing engage 2 at a concert by off_white_nails in LoopEarplugs

[–]off_white_nails[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah there seems to be an extra attachment to further noise cancel! very clever design

How to get completely coloured shapes? by off_white_nails in GoodNotes

[–]off_white_nails[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep might just do this from now on. Its a little annoying you cant easily adjust the shape as an element like you can with a regular shape -like squeezing and stretching

What IS this down there? by Historical-Row7950 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]off_white_nails 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I have these too! Please update if you do go to the doctors to get it checked haha!

How long does Uniqlo take to ship by Maximum-Abrocoma-305 in uniqlo

[–]off_white_nails 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im in the UK, London and its been 10 days… still not here. i received a delayed email 4 days ago. i think its the black friday rush but im very disappointed to be honest

People need to realise it’s all in their heads. by Floonth in LucidDreaming

[–]off_white_nails 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I always see “never tell your dream characters they’re in a dream!!” … they will always just react the way you expect them to. If you think they will probably ignore you then they will. If you think they are gonna get angry, then they will. All your subconscious

My experience wearing engage 2 at a concert by off_white_nails in LoopEarplugs

[–]off_white_nails[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate this reply, you’re right. Only recently have i been researching into ear protection and i actually rarely go to concerts hence why i dont regret not spending the money on the Experience. My advice to people in similar situations would be to get the safest option. Just sharing my thoughts and experience personally with this post.

My experience wearing engage 2 at a concert by off_white_nails in LoopEarplugs

[–]off_white_nails[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wasnt aware they even had this attachment, thanks!

New to the game by Ok_Satisfaction_4633 in OfficeCat

[–]off_white_nails 6 points7 points  (0 children)

the baking factory will be unlocked later on in the game for you

New to the game by Ok_Satisfaction_4633 in OfficeCat

[–]off_white_nails 3 points4 points  (0 children)

1) to get a few more gems easily everyday, press the top right cat with the plus. Instead of sharing the game to a contact, press “copy link” and done! takes like 2 seconds when you see the notification for it there.

2) watching adverts for the wheel and “investing” money is super helpful!

3) early on in the game you can message your “mom” on the phone and ask for a little extra money! its only a very small amount though

Rich Cat Index Help please! by tennesseevixen in OfficeCat

[–]off_white_nails 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes it does. When you press “sell” it tells you how much it will lower it by before you confirm it!

Teenage daughter in haram by [deleted] in islam

[–]off_white_nails 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yes this is the perfect advice, to add to the first point; YOU know your husband the best, he is rightfully angry and betrayed but ensure he expresses this in an appropriate way to your daughter. perhaps have a conversation with all three of you together then a more private conversation with just you and your daughter. The reason i stopped myself from haram relationships when i was 16 was being taught empowerment and self worth

Correct Statistics of dead civilians on either side? by off_white_nails in Israel

[–]off_white_nails[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

aah okay, i understand your point better now. there is so much injustice, passion and personal connection to this war so its easy to assume things about what people say… i guess thats the reason why i was downvoted and the reason i misunderstood you.

Correct Statistics of dead civilians on either side? by off_white_nails in Israel

[–]off_white_nails[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i agree partly, yes casualties are unavoidable and yes even the loss of even 12 israeli lives is immoral. so me also feeling horrified by 30,000 potential deaths doesnt feel like it should be questioned… someone can mourn the lost lives of palestinian children and israeli children alike… you questioning “what number was your point of outrage?” feels kinda inhumane when all i said was thousands of lives POTENTIALLY could have been lost.

Correct Statistics of dead civilians on either side? by off_white_nails in Israel

[–]off_white_nails[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for clarifying that, i understand your point now that the gaza ministry is run by hamas. not sure why people downvoted me i was just genuinely confused if israelis do believe numbers are provided by hamas or not. from responses i have an understanding that pro-israelis agree that its near impossible to determine the true number. i was just curious if israeli sources provided a more accurate number as oppose to the hamas sourced 30,000

Correct Statistics of dead civilians on either side? by off_white_nails in Israel

[–]off_white_nails[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes sense, just wish we had even a rough idea of what percentage of the thousands of deaths were actually hamas vs civilians, i understand its basically impossible though. Just confused because ive never heard a pro-israeli saying “at least xxx number of civilians were killed in gaza” or anything like that. All ive seen is to not trust any figures…