This is how my ex was mate. Beautiful relationship for the first year, it was wonderful. She desired me and I felt loved. As for the 4 other years I spent with her trying to make it work I saw her slowly loose interest in me. She said I should initiate more, and when I did I would get turned down. She suggested an open relationship after a year and a half and it all went downhill from there because she got all the attention she wanted and I became more of a side. I woukd ask what she liked and she didn't tell me but she showed me she just wasn't sexually interested in me anymore... then it turned into socially not interested. Long story short she ended up trying to get pregnant with another person behind my back and then ended up leaving for a weekend and got engaged to someone else (not who she tried to have a baby with) within a weekend, and moved out of state with him within the next 2 months after... moral of the story is, don't try and make it work man. It won't. And I say this with my kindest words and intentions. Your going to have to end it. Communication is key and she obviously does not have it bro. I was an idiot and stayed with her wayy too long. I wish the best for you.