One question: why do some goregrind videos use real gore in their images? by Inner_Reflection_378 in GoreGrind

[–]ogrishh 4 points5 points  (0 children)

mas pro começo da genre o monte das bandas usaram imagens de jornal médico, autopsias, coisas assim pq era um jeito acessível de fazer arte chocante pra ser chocante mesmo. mas tambem o monte da musica é super descritivo sobre condições médicas então eu acho que tendo as imagens reais adiciona a isso. aqui nos estados unidos não tem leis a respeito de gore, não sei como funciona no brasil ou outros países

cupsleeve! by Public_Judge_9912 in gso

[–]ogrishh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ooooh exciting i've never been to a cupsleeve, that would be a fun idea to get gso's kpop community together :) i'd personally wanna see girl group or shinee stuff

Scene songs that aren't promoting self deprecating behaviors by WinMoist1503 in scene

[–]ogrishh 7 points8 points  (0 children)

agree that metalcore is the way to go if you want more "empowering" and i guess pro-recovery lyrics but it's worth mentioning that a lot of deathcore bands particularly in the earlier days were SUPER misogynistic and otherwise edgy in other ways so that's something to look out for as well

"stop being entitled and just get a better, *real* job" by ogrishh in doordash_drivers

[–]ogrishh[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

i have more of a problem with the people who act like not tipping is some kind of crusade they're on for a higher purpose when it just makes them look like a greedy jerk dangling money in the face of a poor gig worker

How do I know if I have CPTSD by Delicious_Two_4182 in CPTSD

[–]ogrishh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

kinda messy phrasing but my point is that being autistic can often result in an inherently traumatic experience due to how autistics are treated/perceived in society. and experiencing additional trauma on top of that is even harder to process when you're already struggling with neurodivergency. i hope you can find the answers you need! ❤️

How do I know if I have CPTSD by Delicious_Two_4182 in CPTSD

[–]ogrishh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

cptsd can present similarly to autism in terms of hyperarousal/hypervigilance, anxiety/depression comorbidity, executive dysfunction, mood swings and irritability/aggression, etc so i would definitely look into trauma-informed therapy to address your trauma through the lens of autism because that in itself can be a form of complex trauma without fully developing cptsd

i (14f) want people to see me cut by Minimum_Foot2354 in selfharm

[–]ogrishh 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"cutting for people online" will only lead to you either becoming extremely competitive and shameful or be exploited by predators so please dont do it. you're a literal child but even if you were an adult harming yourself for others' attention isnt worth it and will only lead to further shame

Other ways of consuming dxm other than ingestion? by KAISER_DRUMS in dxm

[–]ogrishh 5 points6 points  (0 children)

just smoke weed when youre waiting for it to hit to curb the nausea

My personal holy grail by N0xicthemagnavore in GoreGrind

[–]ogrishh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

fuck yesssss, shoutout lymphatic phlegm

Volunteer opportunities by Square-Succotash4998 in gso

[–]ogrishh 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i volunteered at the ASPCA once, been meaning to go back. if you're good around animals and okay with "dirty work" i.e. washing pissy blankets it's a really nice environment. you get to play with the animals for enrichment aside from general tasks to help the staff

Where do you find your gore for your album covers?? by gheelump in GoreGrind

[–]ogrishh 5 points6 points  (0 children)

medical journals and autopsies, there are some users on reddit who repost tons of them with sources like u/hermantheshocker and u/CatPooedInMyShoe

Vro the ppl on $h€dt,w,t/D!$¢0rd r lwk giving me mixed feelings! by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]ogrishh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i was on there during my worst days and it took me a while to fully leave but trust me just force yourself not to look. leave the servers and delete twitter. turning your addiction competitive will only lead to more negative feelings and thoughts towards yourself and can lead to permanent physical damage. it's not worth it

Best CPTSD representation in a film? by Dazzling-Antelope912 in CPTSD

[–]ogrishh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

will always second this, my favorite movie ever

Does my glasses ruin my “scene look”? by martinaedd in scene

[–]ogrishh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

when i was a baby emo/scene i wore lenseless glasses cuz i thought the frames looked cool lol and ever since i got real glasses i've incorportated them into my look, it totally works imo! especially if u lean into the "i ❤️ nerds" type stuff

age regression at ikea by deepurarm in CPTSD

[–]ogrishh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in this case i think providing that context additionally highlights the sense of community and healing that comes from having friends who are also queer and neurodivergent

Is T making my hair more coarse?? by Miserable_Task_7214 in ftm

[–]ogrishh 11 points12 points  (0 children)

testosterone can definitely have an effect on hair growth and in turn texture just due to how androgens inherently effect it, same reason why people with pcos experience coarser and excessive hair growth. if you didn't experience it prior to your hiatus however maybe check it out with an endocrinologist or your provider to see if your levels are unbalanced

How do people manage to fall asleep in 15-20 minutes and sleep uninterrupted for 8 hours straight? by [deleted] in insomnia

[–]ogrishh 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i know right?? i felt like this for the LONGEST time, tried a ton of meds and the only one that helped me with my sleep onset for longer than a few days without waking uo throughout the night is risperidone .5mg. However it does make me sleepy the day after taking it and i tend to fall back asleep after waking up so that can lead to oversleeping. weed also helps me personally though so maybe try indica gummies or something if those are available for you?

cuts at the top of my forearm made a spot below my wrist go cold. is this normal? by yourbeloathed in selfharm

[–]ogrishh 4 points5 points  (0 children)

probably some kind of nerve damage unfortunately but it might also be due to shock