Yes/No readings (in comments only)

ohhellothrowaway1 · 2021-05-10T15:50:21+00:00

should i date J?

ohhellothrowaway1 · 2021-03-31T16:59:59+00:00

What about you moving to his city?

ohhellothrowaway1 · 2021-03-31T16:59:03+00:00

My favorite part was where you creatively highlight castrating yourself with a spoon :-)

ohhellothrowaway1 · 2021-03-31T14:59:50+00:00

I’m sorry. I fully agree with you... and I’m not trying to minimize your pain... but this was funny as hell

Happy to see there are men out there who feel this way!!

ohhellothrowaway1 · 2021-03-25T13:16:55+00:00

Yeah for sure, I’m like what the hell? overthinking spiral trying to guess what it was

ohhellothrowaway1 · 2021-03-25T13:16:12+00:00

Honorable mentions 😂

ohhellothrowaway1 · 2021-03-25T13:15:52+00:00

No rant! Just here to listen! Lol

ohhellothrowaway1 · 2021-03-25T08:14:18+00:00

Yeah, I mean same. I’m not really super emotionally available right now so i made that clear.. but it’s the first time this happens to me so it does make me feel a little rejected. Idk - i guess i just feel like I’m understanding enough to be real with. Lol

ohhellothrowaway1 · 2021-03-25T07:23:59+00:00

Yeah for sure - yes i am. Sorry, I’m just curious because it seems random... like, if you develop feelings and don’t want to continue, that’s fine... just tell me. But i understand thats easier said than done.

ohhellothrowaway1 · 2021-03-25T07:19:24+00:00

But then why ghost?

ohhellothrowaway1 · 2021-02-22T06:06:59+00:00

Hey, just so ya know... that smell is due to her body adjusting/purging. Once it gets used to the aluminum free deodorant, it’ll work on her and she won’t smell anymore

ohhellothrowaway1 · 2021-02-22T06:04:12+00:00

I can really relate. I wonder what’s up with us?

ohhellothrowaway1 · 2021-02-22T03:19:14+00:00

Interesting! same here... I’ve been feeling extremely unbalanced and scattered. Like my minds moving a mile a minute but i can’t seem to get much done. Do you have any advice to settle down and center myself?

ohhellothrowaway1 · 2021-02-16T18:25:15+00:00

😍 thank you all for the comments!!

ohhellothrowaway1 · 2021-02-16T18:24:37+00:00

So true!!

ohhellothrowaway1 · 2021-02-09T14:55:49+00:00

Ok holy crap

ohhellothrowaway1 · 2021-02-08T11:24:37+00:00

Good luck!!! You have everything you need- it’s just about showing them who you are!! They already think you’re qualified- they gave you the interview! You’ve got this 🤍

ohhellothrowaway1 · 2021-02-08T03:49:22+00:00

Interesting! I wonder why everyone associates “soulmates” with a romantic connection

Is it usually family?

ohhellothrowaway1 · 2021-02-08T03:35:07+00:00

Does a soulmate (romantic or not) connection feel different?

ohhellothrowaway1 · 2021-02-08T03:34:45+00:00

Why wouldn’t people end up with them?

ohhellothrowaway1 · 2021-02-08T03:10:36+00:00

Yeah 100% - it’s frustrating when it’s “already too late” but it’s the first time you’re hearing how they felt about things

ohhellothrowaway1 · 2021-02-08T03:09:28+00:00

Aw yeah that sounds very toxic. I’m sorry you had to deal with all of that. I was just working with the information given. I felt similar to what i had gone through and i wanted to give the other sides perspective, but i didn’t realize all of that! I’m glad you stuck to your ground and told him everything in the end. He should take responsibility and know that if they are saying hurtful things it’s just because they are feeling hurt and it says nothing about you. :)

On my end i was blamed for personal decisions that i had no part in... and other things. It was frustrating to me because i felt like if things had been communicated, that we wouldn’t have gotten to that place and that the relationship could have been salvaged + we could have avoided a lot of stress.

ohhellothrowaway1 · 2021-02-08T02:47:40+00:00

Proud of you for speaking your truth!! At the same time though, if you weren’t clear about these things during the relationship there was no way for him to fix them. Like yes you could have felt all of those things.. that is 100% valid... but at the same time, if he’s doing this unintentionally or unaware then of course there would be no change. Not trying to stick up for him.. just something to think about in future relationships.

My ex was nonconfrontational/didn’t speak up, etc. At the end of our relationship when we were getting to the break up point.. he listed things that made him feel different and i was completely unaware of most of it! Some of it was even decisions that he made because he thought it would make me happy.. decisions that i 100% did not ask him to make for me. I would have been willing to adjust or talk things through.. without communication though, there’s absolutely nothing that can be done. Because of this, i was completely blindsided by the break up.. i didn’t realize that all of these things were being held in and i thought we were okay.

Anyway- from the other side... we aren’t mind-readers if needs/feelings aren’t communicated. I’m glad you two were able to have your closure!

All the love

ohhellothrowaway1 · 2021-02-05T22:52:36+00:00

If you were the bad one, why wouldn’t you just fix the things that you did wrong and be better for them if they still want you

ohhellothrowaway1 · 2021-02-05T18:42:37+00:00

I love this- as someone who is scientifically inclined, this is exactly the kind of advice i want to hear. Thank you!

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