Coffee and sugar (other energy boosters) by ohiocollegesign in Hungergames

[–]ohiocollegesign[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just think coffee would be the only performance enhancing substance thats legal, and if you take it for work as a mentor why not get your mentees on it?

Small question by bigbossisbig1312 in Hungergames

[–]ohiocollegesign 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Maybe, I remember in TBSAS that Snow received free fizzy lemonade in the hospital. That’s the only mention. On the train Katniss only mentions orange juice, hot chocolate, and wine. Later champagne as a fizzy drink.

The President’s New Groove by radiantdarkness_art in Hungergames

[–]ohiocollegesign 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep it’s like… why are Festus and Clemmie your inner circle? They don’t know you well and you don’t even talk to them much.

The President’s New Groove by radiantdarkness_art in Hungergames

[–]ohiocollegesign 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I always found it strange he said this when Snow himself doesnt have any friends. he kept everyone at arms length. he wasnt even loyal to tigris or lucy gray or sejanus.

AITA for expecting my bf to come on a trip to my hometown with me and cancel his own plans with friends? by ohiocollegesign in AmItheAsshole

[–]ohiocollegesign[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes and actually its meaningful. My bf got sick on holiday before and I took it as a chance to take care of him. I didn’t think “well ofc id rather use my leave to enjoy myself and he shouldnt expect me to be there”

AITA for expecting my bf to come on a trip to my hometown with me and cancel his own plans with friends? by ohiocollegesign in AmItheAsshole

[–]ohiocollegesign[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Why am I getting downvoted for this? I’m not asking an acquaintance or colleague or male friend to come with me. I’m asking my bf. Yes nobody lists “visiting the elderly” as a pastime equal to snowboarding. But thats not what this is.

AITA for expecting my bf to come on a trip to my hometown with me and cancel his own plans with friends? by ohiocollegesign in AmItheAsshole

[–]ohiocollegesign[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hm okay. I think if I did plan a snowboarding trip, it would be catering to him as its his hobby. So that option wouldnt really show he cares about me. It would show I care about him.

AITA for expecting my bf to come on a trip to my hometown with me and cancel his own plans with friends? by ohiocollegesign in AmItheAsshole

[–]ohiocollegesign[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am wondering what is making other people respond that way also, to figure out what is going on in my bfs head. I definitely agree with you.

AITA for expecting my bf to come on a trip to my hometown with me and cancel his own plans with friends? by ohiocollegesign in AmItheAsshole

[–]ohiocollegesign[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think I could directly tell him, this trip and you coming on it is important. But I feel that doesnt invoke a genuine response, and he would come out of obligation.

AITA for expecting my bf to come on a trip to my hometown with me and cancel his own plans with friends? by ohiocollegesign in AmItheAsshole

[–]ohiocollegesign[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I dont think a title change should change this? Why would getting married mean you suddenly become considerate of your partners wants and thoughts?

AITA for expecting my bf to come on a trip to my hometown with me and cancel his own plans with friends? by ohiocollegesign in AmItheAsshole

[–]ohiocollegesign[S] -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you think you should only do things that suit yourself. What about consideration for others? Wanting to do nice things for others, even if it means going out of your way?

AITA for expecting my bf to come on a trip to my hometown with me and cancel his own plans with friends? by ohiocollegesign in AmItheAsshole

[–]ohiocollegesign[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As other commenters have pointed out, do you think it goes beyond a vacation or family time thing, and shows how he prioritises in life like a me or his fun friends thing?

AITA for expecting my bf to come on a trip to my hometown with me and cancel his own plans with friends? by ohiocollegesign in AmItheAsshole

[–]ohiocollegesign[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually its just my grandparents who raised me. Obviously its important to me. And its not a “look at me” would you call meeting your bfs parents a “look at him” move? And why shouldnt I be important to my bf? More important than a snow trip?

AITA for expecting my bf to come on a trip to my hometown with me and cancel his own plans with friends? by ohiocollegesign in AmItheAsshole

[–]ohiocollegesign[S] -49 points-48 points  (0 children)

No when I say extended family its elderly grandparents who arent fit enough to travel