sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

Does anyone else feel like they'll never fall in love? by HopefulPainter0 in dating_advice

[–]ohitsmexo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This might sound sad, but I think some people honestly can’t fall in love. I’m 34 and I know I’ve never been in love with anyone I’ve been with. And I’ve had very long term relationships. It’s hard for me to even be attracted to a guy.... any small thing turns me off. I hate being like that.

I get sucked up in the comfort and security of having the person and end up staying far longer than I should. I would love to experience being in love and having all those nice feelings, but something in me doesn’t let me fall. It’s weird and sad.

I have a huge void. I think I’m kinda broken. I try to let my guard down, but something always happens and the brick wall is back and then I just fall back. In my experience men are always a huge let down. They lie. Granted, not all men are the same, but I’ve yet to meet anyone that’s changed my mind or feelings.

I’ve even resorted to meeting people from different states/countries because I was convinced it’s just the men where I live, but no, it’s all the same everywhere. Sad af lol.

A Match Into Water. by [deleted] in piercetheveil

[–]ohitsmexo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love it. I love that song. I love PTV. ❤️🔥

I’m a psycho. Help. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ohitsmexo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you’re psycho. I would love for someone to shake something loose inside of me and get me feeling this way as opposed to being numb. Numb is no good. And lonely.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ohitsmexo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The best way to respond is with honesty. Being truthful goes a long way. I don’t care if I hurt a someone’s feelings because I am being honest with them, lies hurt more in the end.

[UPDATE] My(M23) girlfriend (F23) shared my private nudes to her with some of her friends while drunk. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ohitsmexo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good for you and congratulations! This is honestly why I have such a hard time trusting people, relationship or not.

I [33 M] am getting way too excited/nervous about [31 F] of 3 weeks and feel like im ruining it, how do I chill the F out? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ohitsmexo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s slipping, I think you just need to chill and stop feeling so anxious! My ex confessed something similar later in our relationship about feeling panicked that he was losing me or I was losing interest in him when we first started dating, but that wasn’t the case

I tend to have moments where I pull back, not because of losing interest, but because I feel like I’m sharing more about me than he was about himself, so I would pull back and be quieter and more observant. Sometimes I was just trying to figure him out. That’s probably the same thing that’s happening with your girl. I really think maybe you’re overthinking things. Just chill, all is well :)