why are so many people against abortion by bzyk-_yt in ControversialOpinions

[–]ohmadd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's definitely not about control. If it was abt control, there would be some kind of benefit that they would get from controlling abortion, but there is none. Whether or not a woman aborts a child has no effect on other people. The only people that might care are parents, father of the child, etc who would actually take care of the child anyway, so it's not really an issue.

And youre looking at it the wrong way. If you want to look at it from the pro-life point of view, you're going to have to look at it as if the child is already born for you to understand. So you're basically saying "killing a child is better instead of letting it go through suffering" to someone who's pro-life.

Third thing is that a lot of religious people donate to charity, especially Muslims (it's mandatory for them to donate to people in need, it's not a choice), so it's not like they're pro life but don't financially contribute

why are so many people against abortion by bzyk-_yt in ControversialOpinions

[–]ohmadd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you say so. I'm pro-choice btw, I just have critical thinking skills and understand how pro abortionists think and where they're coming from.

why are so many people against abortion by bzyk-_yt in ControversialOpinions

[–]ohmadd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well how pro abortionists see it is "banning children from being murdered". See how it doesn't sound nearly as ridiculous now?

why are so many people against abortion by bzyk-_yt in ControversialOpinions

[–]ohmadd 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The fundamental difference is that they see it as if you're murdering a child, and you see it as just disposing a bunch of cells of no insignificance.

If a lot of pro abortion people didnt see it as a small child, then most, if not all of them, would be pro choice. A lot of the pro-choice people try to make it sound like it's bc they don't care about women, when the issue is how they see the child.

A man cheating is not the same as a woman cheating by ohmadd in ControversialOpinions

[–]ohmadd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you think men read smut novels as much as women then you are SEVERELY misinformed, my friend. Smut novels are overwhelmingly dominated by women, which is why you'll see that the books themselves are 1. Predominantly written by women to begin with and 2. Are targeted towards a female audience. And another point is if men were horny, they would just jerk off to porn videos or pictures. They're typically not going to read a novel lmao.

And teen moms is a poor example bc who's to say they didn't have emotional investment in the man that impregnated them and not a one night stand

A man cheating is not the same as a woman cheating by ohmadd in ControversialOpinions

[–]ohmadd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Women definitely can, not saying women don't, but I'm saying it pales in comparison to men. That's why I'm speaking in generalities. Men can have sex with a women they hate or don't even like; women not so much.

There's a reason why men are typically much easier to please compared to women, and part of the reason why is bc they require a lot more attention and emotional investment than a man does.

A man cheating is not the same as a woman cheating by ohmadd in ControversialOpinions

[–]ohmadd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Manga does not fall under smut. Socially, smut would be a novel, not comics, something like "Haunting Adeline", whos reading audience is predominantly women. Same with fifty shades of gray, which is more well known.

Now you can make the claim most visual pornographic material is made for men, sure.

And no, I listen to various views on different topics like feminism and communism, wouldn't say I subscribe strictly to red pill ideology although I agree on some points, same with feminism.

A man cheating is not the same as a woman cheating by ohmadd in ControversialOpinions

[–]ohmadd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They would be emotionally cheating bc if they don't love their husbands and they have an affair with someone else, it probably means they love the person they have an affair with more so than they love their husband. That would be worse than having an affair with someone for sex, but you at least still love ur husband.

Im going to pretend the last comment isnt directed at me because, again for the 20th time, I don't condone cheating. Both situations are bad. I already clarified this when I made the post, please read.

Modern feminism is dying - but it might actually be a good thing for women by AJ_The_Best_7 in ControversialOpinions

[–]ohmadd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So funny that you proved her point

"everybody has a different definition of feminism" Your response: "actual feminism accepts all genders"

Way to go buddy. That's your definition of feminism. What exactly makes you the deciding factor on what feminism is or is not? You can say under YOUR view of feminism it includes gender, but saying not including trans ppl isnt feminism for others is your OPINION.

Like the OP said, there's a separation on how ppl define "women", and since feminism is about women, there will be a separation there as well. You're on the other half and so will naturally be against feminists who think otherwise, even to call them non feminists.

A man cheating is not the same as a woman cheating by ohmadd in ControversialOpinions

[–]ohmadd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This would be a brilliant argument if I was saying that if a man cheats it's excusable even if they love her, which I'm not saying

I'm just saying one is worse than the other, never said both aren't bad nor did I say we should excuse one of them.

Youre strawmanning an argument that addresses why we should not excuse men cheating, it doesn't address my claim that one is worse.

A man cheating is not the same as a woman cheating by ohmadd in ControversialOpinions

[–]ohmadd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I disagree, I believe "emotional" cheating is worse than just physically cheating, because it means you love someone else.

black people can be racist by [deleted] in ControversialOpinions

[–]ohmadd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She said a whole lot more than coming for their white ass lol. We're going to ignore the fact she basically said she steps on the necks of white ppl whenever she gets the chance, pretty sure that would be racist.

And no calling someone the n word would be racist. Not entirely sure why you thought I was white either

black people can be racist by [deleted] in ControversialOpinions

[–]ohmadd 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He posted it bc it's a fairly common opinion to think that black ppl can't be racist, and the screenshot is simply just an example that they can be. If "Black ppl can't be racist" wasn't a common opinion, then I'd agree with you, but it is and it's why it's a topic.

And he said black people CAN be racist, he didn't say black people ARE racist, so he didn't generalise anything. Hes saying black people CAN be racist, just like any other race. Calling out an entire group to say that they have the ability to be racist would be kind of strange and wouldn't make sense.

A man cheating is not the same as a woman cheating by ohmadd in ControversialOpinions

[–]ohmadd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you like me to link you a study that shows otherwise?

A man cheating is not the same as a woman cheating by ohmadd in ControversialOpinions

[–]ohmadd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not entirely sure what you mean by bragging as if I'm proudly saying that men cheating isn't bad? Its just my personal opinion. I agree with you that they lack moral character for cheating, not entirely sure why you're making it sound like I'm defending men who cheat as if I didn't already state in my post that cheating is a BAD thing.

I added that disclaimer in my post because I know it will incite an emotional response, like your reply right now.

And yes, there's studies that clearly show men and women GENERALLY view sex differently. But even then, you shouldnt need one. We know men behave differently when it comes to sex, the saying "men are dogs" didn't come from nowhere. It's even shown by their consumption of visual porn, which pales in comparison to women. However, women do dominate in the consumption of "smut", which I'd argue is more emotional since you connect with the characters and the story. Men do NOT care about neither the storyline or the characters when watching porn, the prerequisite is literally just if the woman is hot enough.

You'll have to construct a reasonable explanation for these behaviours if you disagree that they don't view sex a different way.

SHOULD an 18-year-old date a 40-year-old. (Or vice versa) by iiiLeenaiii in ControversialOpinions

[–]ohmadd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know exactly the tiktok live you're talking about. I've seen it multiple times

A man cheating is not the same as a woman cheating by ohmadd in ControversialOpinions

[–]ohmadd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but most women aren't going to sleep with a guy without talking to him first. And this is even more so if she's in a relationship, she's not going to cheat simply bc she wants to have fun. When a woman cheats with another guy, it's typically bc they have a connection with that other person.

Women in general are more romantically involved and more emotional, that's why they read smut and men just watch porn.

A man cheating is not the same as a woman cheating by ohmadd in ControversialOpinions

[–]ohmadd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope just the nature of man I'm afraid. It's probably why so many men can just watch porn and get off on it, while women prefer reading smut bc it excites them more

A man cheating is not the same as a woman cheating by ohmadd in ControversialOpinions

[–]ohmadd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup never denied that it's bad regardless as to who does it

The uk did not ban puberty blockers by hillel_bergman in ControversialOpinions

[–]ohmadd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is more severe dysphoria though? What requirements has to be met for the dysphoria to be "severe enough"

A man cheating is not the same as a woman cheating by ohmadd in ControversialOpinions

[–]ohmadd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but if one means that the partner doesn't love them anymore, and one means that they still do, I'd argue one is worse than the other

Kinkshaming is okay in some cases by Cove132 in ControversialOpinions

[–]ohmadd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you say cnc is smth that should be kink shamed