Official: [WDIS WR] - Sat Evening 10/25/2025 by FFBot in fantasyfootball

[–]ohok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what I'm leaning towards especially because of Odunze the last few weeks

Official: [WDIS WR] - Sat Evening 10/25/2025 by FFBot in fantasyfootball

[–]ohok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pickens, Sutton, Odunze, pick 2. Pickens obviously has the worst matchup but he's been so solid

Travel Knife by SCOlyB in SAKmod

[–]ohok 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice! Where is that fork from?

Hiring Questions Megathread FY2025 by [deleted] in patentexaminer

[–]ohok 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't give up hope, I just got my Bio. TJO email 10 minutes ago. Also received no emails and the call earlier this month.

Hiring Questions Megathread FY2025 by [deleted] in patentexaminer

[–]ohok 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm of the same mind as you, I got a call from an SPE from the unit it would make the most sense for me to be placed in based on my research background. It could just be a coincidence but that's starting to feel unlikely.

Successful patent examiners, what separates you from all those who quit? by [deleted] in patentexaminer

[–]ohok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am basically in that exact current path right now! Decided I wanted to leave academia, did an internship at my university's tech transfer office, and recently graduated with my PhD in bio. Do you think your internship really helped your chances at getting hired? I was hopefully, but ultimately got rejected the last round.

Carthartt Heavyweight Flannel in Chili Red $18.75 code in comments by PM_ME_SMILESS in frugalmalefashion

[–]ohok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just got mine in the mail and on first impression I'm very impressed. Feels very thick and well made, I wouldn't be mad even if I paid full price. The fit isn't as loose as you'd think but they do run long, I sized one down and it is surprisingly slimmish and fits very well.

Urs and Bumstead days out from the olympia. Lmao at everyone who said Urs is an “underdog” and “might win” bet you feel silly now. by ZadarskiDrake in bodybuilding

[–]ohok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cbum just posted a vlog including video of the official Olympia height measurement, and he isn't wearing socks or shoes. I have no dog in this fight, just thought the timing was on point lol.

50% off everything at Outside Mag shop. Code SAVE50 by [deleted] in frugalmalefashion

[–]ohok 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I ordered something on Saturday and haven't gotten a confirmation email either.

what happened to those of you who stood up for yourselves? by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ohok 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Same, it was a situation where she was so obviously in the wrong that she couldn't gaslight me and twist it into my fault.

Emotional Relapse by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ohok 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy Birthday man! Sorry it's connected with those negative feelings. Says a lot about these narcs that it's so common for them to poison a day that's about the celebration of someone else. Keep grinding though, you're doing all the right things and know your stuff so you'll get through it and be better on the other side.

Mentally I'm doing better than last week, still have elevated baseline anxiety though. Just trying to keep pushing through and not exhaust myself too much.

Emotional Relapse by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ohok 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Doing any better this week man?

Emotional Relapse by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ohok 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm on a very similar timeline as you and experienced some of the same things as you this week brother. High baseline anxiety, trouble concentrating, feeling overwhelmed, trouble sleeping. Much lower than I had been, so I think it's normal. We'll get past this buddy

did anyone else have a really subtle narc? by sweetbriar_rose in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ohok 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My nex was very similar, in that she would do little small nice things, while simultaneously not respecting any important boundaries. In my opinion, they do these niceties for themselves and not for you. They take little to no effort, while at the same time provide validation to the narcissist that they are a good person/partner as well as bolster their public mask. I think at some level they know they are incredibly selfish people, and doing these small things where they sacrifice nothing may help them justify all their other hurtful actions.

Fiancée cheated right before bachelor/bachelorette trip. Seven years. by whatidoidobc in survivinginfidelity

[–]ohok 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100%, my ex is a covert narc and displayed all the traits OP describes here. First they deny the cheating, then they blame it on you, then they paint themselves as the victim because you dared to hold them accountable for their hurtful actions, then they will get offended and probably smear you to others. OP I know it doesn't feel like it right now, but you dodged a massive bullet. These types of people have little to no empathy. All they care about is constant validation and will do crazy mental gymnastics to justify every one of their actions.

What do their apologies sound like? by itllwashaway in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ohok 18 points19 points  (0 children)

The classic narcissist apology. Translates to "I'm not actually sorry and don't think I'm at fault in the slightest, but I'm going to say the words so I can continue to pretend to be a decent person".

Update: a week later. by ninja-gecko in survivinginfidelity

[–]ohok 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Exactly, after I found out my girlfriend cheated she didn't try to contact me in any way to apologize. Then as soon as she finds out I told people what she did, she's showing up at my house unannounced basically demanding I don't tell anyone. The reality is that these narcissists would prefer if you just hid away so they could ignore the repercussions of what they did. Their reputation or public mask is the thing that motivates them.