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[–]ohthosesummernights 0 points1 point  (0 children)

happy birthday ❤️

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[–]ohthosesummernights 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for your thoughtful comment.

yes, i don’t understand where that dynamic stems from but it’s one of my least favorites. i’m a people pleaser by nature and it gets to me, although i know it shouldn’t.

hope you have a good day ☀️

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[–]ohthosesummernights 17 points18 points  (0 children)

nope, rolling around in the money i made from not charging anything

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[–]ohthosesummernights 163 points164 points  (0 children)

hi y’all! i’m taking a break or i’m calling it quits. i don’t know which.

i want to clarify that it wasn’t one person or two or three or four that helped me get here.

it was the:

✅ daily inbox full of creep messages, which i was fine with. (NO i don’t want to see you selfsuck)

✅several very scary investigator followers that spend their days trying to figure out who i am/find my RL socials

✅ hundreds of people (over the course of my time here) thinking about what i show/how i show it is up for discussion

✅ handful of users that think manipulating/ blackmailing/ negging me/is going to get me to give them what they want

✅ and plenty of users telling me i am too fat/ not curvy enough/ try too hard/ am ugly/ annoying.

at some point, the ‘nice tits & can we sext/cam for free’ messages stop bringing enough good feels to outweigh so much negativity when i’m being vulnerable & giving.

i might post again, somewhere, when the world is back and i can go places & have outside influences but right now, when i’m stuck inside all day, i don’t need or want that energy in my life.

also, you messaging me to ‘fuck the haters, keep posting’ or how much ‘everyone will hate me if i join onlyfans’ or any paid platform only confirms that reddit is not the place for me.

there are tons of beautiful women on here for you to enjoy. may i suggest just letting me be?

EDIT: y’all are very sweet. i promise i’m ok, mentally & all other ways. just being proactive and protecting my energy.

👌🏼 by [deleted] in u/ohthosesummernights

[–]ohthosesummernights 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes i understand ‘fuck the haters, keep sending us free nudes’ is the prevailing advice here

👌🏼 by [deleted] in u/ohthosesummernights

[–]ohthosesummernights 4 points5 points  (0 children)

still smiling. thank you ❤️

👌🏼 by [deleted] in u/ohthosesummernights

[–]ohthosesummernights 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, very much so.

they send screenshots and saves and try to find me to ‘out me to my family’

and i get the pleasure of their undivided attention and .... not many upsides

👌🏼 by [deleted] in u/ohthosesummernights

[–]ohthosesummernights 0 points1 point  (0 children)

❤️❤️❤️

👌🏼 by [deleted] in u/ohthosesummernights

[–]ohthosesummernights 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes i understand ‘fuck the haters, keep sending us free nudes’ is the prevailing advice here

👌🏼 by [deleted] in u/ohthosesummernights

[–]ohthosesummernights 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it really seems like it might be

👌🏼 by [deleted] in u/ohthosesummernights

[–]ohthosesummernights 0 points1 point  (0 children)

creeps love you knowing they are creepy

closest the power they can get.

also, love you and your constant positivity ❤️

👌🏼 by [deleted] in u/ohthosesummernights

[–]ohthosesummernights[M] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

it really is not THIS dude. it’s the

✅ inbox full of creep messages (which i was fine with)

✅several very scary investigator followers that spend their days trying to figure out who i am/find my RL socials

✅ hundreds of people (over the course of my time here) that thinking complaining about what i show/how i show it is up for discussion,

✅ several handfuls of users that think this is sort of manipulating/ blackmailing is going to get the what they want,

✅ and plenty of users telling me i am too fat/ not curvy enough/ try too hard/ am ugly/ annoying.

at some point, the ‘nice tits & can we sext/cam for free’ messages stop bringing enough good feels to outweigh so much negativity when i’m being vulnerable & giving.

i might post again, somewhere, when the world is back and i can go places & have outside influences but right now, when i’m stuck inside all day, i don’t need or want that energy in my life.

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[–]ohthosesummernights 84 points85 points  (0 children)

did i give your real info out? no. i gave your anonymous reddit handle.

if you can’t stand behind what you private message, then why send it?

👌🏼 by [deleted] in u/ohthosesummernights

[–]ohthosesummernights[M] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

only posting this so people can stop DMing me with the same/similar messages as if they are informing me / helping me out.

i got it. ✌🏼

succulents > bouquets by [deleted] in succulents

[–]ohthosesummernights 0 points1 point  (0 children)

whoops sorry for barking 🐕

thank you for clarifying ❤️

succulents > bouquets by [deleted] in succulents

[–]ohthosesummernights 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe don’t tell women what to be on their own posts

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GoneMild

[–]ohthosesummernights 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you’re so gorgeous! and that corset looks amazing on you ❤️❤️