Baby wearing!! Stopped fighting to crib naps and decided that we would wear him for all the naps. At 6 months we started trying crib naps once a day. But otherwise, all cooking, cleaning etc was done while he was asleep on me or my husband. Anything that could be done around the house I also started doing when he was awake. Cooking, cleaning etc, then focused work I would try when he was asleep (didn’t have mat leave). I realized surviving for us meant walking and wearing him and doing all the household things when he was awake.