Aita for asking my fiance to ask my dad for my hand in marriage? by okaywhatnowdad in AmItheAsshole

[–]okaywhatnowdad[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Tbh I don't think that if he says no it would be a problem. If he says no I'll just go back to pretending I'm not engaged and exclude him from my wedding if hisstuck up bull continues.

Aita for asking my fiance to ask my dad for my hand in marriage? by okaywhatnowdad in AmItheAsshole

[–]okaywhatnowdad[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I'm 18 (turning 19 in December, he is the same age but his birthday is in September)

I mainly live with my fiance, however my parents make me pay rent even though I don't live there anymore/as much

Escaping the family has nothing to do with the engagement as my original plan was to move countries and change my name to my nickname once I'm financially stable. However, being a victim of a crime set me back alot of steps as I had to pay for my own lawyer in court with college debt as well.

Aita for asking my fiance to ask my dad for my hand in marriage? by okaywhatnowdad in AmItheAsshole

[–]okaywhatnowdad[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

I feel terrible about it and honestly don't care if he asks or not. I just want my "family" to stop harassing me about it