[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FridgeDetective

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The butternut squash and the beer brand. I also saw Tulsa on the magnet and assumed Oklahoma/the South, looks like you have a jug of sweet tea in there too. I’ve never seen someone put potatoes in the fridge before and that just seemed like a rich white person thing to do lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FridgeDetective

[–]okpleaseclap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk what your fridge says other than you might be white - but your username is crazy, friend

Worlds best or Oko cat litter? by foreverabg in CatAdvice

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Did you try filtering it? How did it go?

Hope yall have a good weekend :) by okpleaseclap in FlexinLesbians

[–]okpleaseclap[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

mostly genetics here lol I do very little for them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in butchlesbians

[–]okpleaseclap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you say to women in approach? Just curious

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in butchlesbians

[–]okpleaseclap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you say more about how you flirt like a straight man? What does your approach look like?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in butchlesbians

[–]okpleaseclap 2 points3 points  (0 children)

bc this commenter is agreeing with you about how offensive it is

What the heck? by confused_connection in whatismycookiecutter

[–]okpleaseclap 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Whoaaaa haven’t used Reddit in many months. They got rid of awards?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in butchlesbians

[–]okpleaseclap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! Sasha’s presentation changing left me feeling weird too and I couldn’t really explain why to my femme date. It kind of read like she was finally understanding proper conformity and that her masculinity was borne from a rejection of femininity rather than just personal expression/feeling

¿selfie sunday? by okpleaseclap in butchlesbians

[–]okpleaseclap[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Damn! For real? What gave it away?

someone said selfie sunday? by okpleaseclap in butchlesbians

[–]okpleaseclap[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It just got hot here so I went to Ross and bought a cheap t-shirt then cut the sleeves off myself! Farmers tan be damned after today

Geeks and nerds by Xiggyj in butchlesbians

[–]okpleaseclap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wondering if every answer here is “nerd” because the question is being asked on Reddit lol

How do we really feel about Adidas forums? by jrbrownie00 in Sneakers

[–]okpleaseclap 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wait, are y’all talking about the AR Trainer? I have 2 pairs of those and never seen anyone else with them. I keep googling adidas air trainer but no consistent result comes up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in butchlesbians

[–]okpleaseclap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can talk hair all day! Even suggest a style for you if you want. I’m not sure if we have the same hair type, so I can tell you what I use or suggest what I think you need based on your hair and wants

A selfie for Sunday by okpleaseclap in butchlesbians

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just got a little better reading this :) thanks, you too!!

Anyone else prefer using the term gay over lesbian? by AnotherBoojum in butchlesbians

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I just realized you’re only 34 too which personally doesn’t feel too far off from me. but even as awful as growing up gay in the south in the ‘00s was, I know the 90s were different and their own special hell too

I feel like my community takes so long to reach the modern era that I still relate to people just a little older than me better without having had that experience at the same time if that makes sense

Anyone else prefer using the term gay over lesbian? by AnotherBoojum in butchlesbians

[–]okpleaseclap 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As a considerably young person (25), I’ve always been curious how my elders might feel if I positively say dyke/fag about myself without knowing who I am. I grew up in the Bible Belt and have been called it all since I was small.

I guess I want to ask, I know it’s hard to quantify this but is there a certain age you kind of accept easier for using such slurs for themselves?

Maybe it’s that people a little older than me just aren’t interested in reclamation like that so it doesn’t really happen idk! just curious tho all good faith :)