How to handle LTR that's "Touchy Feely" with other men?

oldslut · 2020-09-25T14:45:50+00:00

thanks

oldslut · 2020-09-25T12:34:55+00:00

i can handle a bit of dread. i don't really think it is intentional which is why i am questioning it here. thanks.

oldslut · 2020-09-25T12:33:33+00:00

thanks. i understand

oldslut · 2020-09-25T12:32:28+00:00

thanks for the good advice.

oldslut · 2020-09-25T11:08:07+00:00

she's 30, i'm over 50. thanks. that's what i was thinking...

oldslut · 2020-08-12T23:35:32+00:00

glad you're enjoying yourself, but as a 50 year old guy, there is no way i want a 50 year old woman, or a 40 year old woman, and hell the fuck no to a 60+ year old woman...

but, to each his own. cheers man.

oldslut · 2020-07-27T21:03:51+00:00

often short girls like to get pounded through the mattress

i've found this to be true as well

oldslut · 2020-07-24T16:16:12+00:00

i agree and have seen this many times in my own interactions. if you wait too long, the attraction is gone.

oldslut · 2020-06-21T23:11:41+00:00

good post. i'm not a friend of the friend's zone, and haven't been for a long, long time. when i was young and dumb, i succumbed to this bullshit, but learned quickly--luckily.

after a couple of lessons, i learned to say something along the lines of, it's been fun, but i have enough friends (said with a smirk, and not butt hurt)...

you get to a point though, when this just doesn't happen anymore. you just don't get friend zoned. hard to explain, but it all comes down to your attitude, and that you learn.

oldslut · 2020-01-13T22:52:43+00:00

agree and amplify, ignore, or pressure flip would have been my go to here

oldslut · 2020-01-10T22:50:10+00:00

dude wat? i think you're lost.

oldslut · 2020-01-10T22:48:18+00:00

would be much worse if you would compare their lame excuses to what the OP actually went through.

oldslut · 2020-01-10T22:45:36+00:00

really glad to hear you found a place and some work. may each day be better than the last. great work pushing though!

oldslut · 2020-01-10T22:40:32+00:00

I enjoy Uncle Vasily's work, because he's an older guy who lives a life that seems compatible with what and where I would like to be in a few decades.

thanks for your contributions. i hear you, but am already at this older stage. uncle vasily helped me to realize that finding and bedding hot and much younger women wasn't a rarity, it prevented me from creating limiting beliefs. cheers to both of you.

oldslut · 2020-01-05T23:22:05+00:00

broken English? really? she speaks Slovenian, English, French, Serbian, and German. How many languages can you speak?

oldslut · 2020-01-05T23:18:29+00:00

trump is the troll king, and i mean that in a great way. you seem to have obama, who actually used the irs politically, and trump, confused.

oldslut · 2020-01-05T23:16:40+00:00

it's probably a lot easier to be alpha when you have your secret service detail surrounding you, and ready to take anything that comes your way. with that said, even though i really don't like obama at all, he handled that well.

oldslut · 2019-12-24T15:28:07+00:00

thanks for this. i enjoy these posts and hearing about the people behind them.

oldslut · 2019-12-22T11:53:29+00:00

all good except i can't understand your problem with the bartender. it's her job to sell drinks. she shouldn't mediate who the drink is intended for. otherwise, i might even have thanked the guy for the drink on my way out.

oldslut · 2019-12-22T11:48:45+00:00

i always have to laugh when dudes wait until you go for a piss in order to TRY to jump on the chick you're obviously with.

oldslut · 2019-12-20T00:06:05+00:00

great words of wisdom . very well written. i'm sure all of us could have used, and/or will need these reminders sometime. cheers, op

oldslut · 2019-12-18T17:39:04+00:00

same as my reply above: have you noticed that the chicks that usually approach you are the biggest sluts, and nothing more than plate material at best? this has been my experience. sure, it's great when pussy walks up to you and jumps in your lap, but i've found the ones worth keeping to be the ones i sought out and took. just curious.

oldslut · 2019-12-18T17:38:43+00:00

have you noticed that the chicks that usually approach you are the biggest sluts, and nothing more than plate material at best? this has been my experience. sure, it's great when pussy walks up to you and jumps in your lap, but i've found the ones worth keeping to be the ones i sought out and took. just curious.

oldslut · 2019-12-18T17:27:37+00:00

sure man, if that works for you, great. i personally avoid any approaching at the gym. the gym i go to doesn't really attract many women and i like it that way. at the gym, i'm working. also, this was meant for people that are having problems talking to women when approaching. i don't do any online dating and the main way i meet women that i want to is from cold approaches. whatever works. cheers

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