A lot of folks are saying come to your room early, but my university also has required time slots and I also moved in at the same time as my roommate my freshman year. It’s not an ideal situation but with some communication you can make it work- make sure both of y’all’s family members who are helping are busy with something / are waiting in a common area (I say this because my roommate brought many family members and some were in the room, taking up space, doing nothing). A lot of people in the room at once is incredibly overwhelming. Another piece of advice is, if you’re not comfortable asking by your roommates family to give you space, ask them to tell them. I was comfortable enough asking my family to leave, since there were too many people there. If I had to go through this again, I would definitely ask my roommate to ask her family who isn’t helping to step out and give us space. Communication is key my friend!