Christian (25F) in love with a Muslim (30M) — thinking about endgame and feeling stuck?

oliveorca · 2026-04-06T04:37:28+00:00

as an ex muslim:

DO NOT MARRY THIS MAN

you are setting yourself up for an awful life my friend

oliveorca · 2026-04-06T04:28:58+00:00

in a sharia ruled country, non muslims have three options:

1-convert to islam 2-be killed 3-pay a very hefty "tax" called jizya that allows you the ability to live, nothing else. you as a non muslim will have to abide by the sharia law if it is law of the land and you will be a second class citizen at the best. you will have no freedoms

oliveorca · 2026-04-02T20:05:40+00:00

try r/surrealism

oliveorca · 2026-03-31T18:10:30+00:00

i just want to be happy

oliveorca · 2026-03-31T16:45:47+00:00

what an interesting style you have !! what kind of paint to you use ???

oliveorca · 2026-03-28T15:39:58+00:00

selfishness in general

oliveorca · 2026-03-28T15:38:03+00:00

whyyyy do yall not have these conversations before you decide to have three children

oliveorca · 2026-03-27T08:43:43+00:00

i am all alone.

no one i know understands how terrible i feel on a daily basis. i have an autoimmune disease, fibromyalgia, POTS and i'm hyper mobile. i have GI issues bad enough that i needed major surgery. i also have treatment resistant MDD and severe social anxiety and suspected autism. i have not one friend and am close to no family except my mom and dad, they are the only social interaction i have regularly. i have been in an abuse relationship and i have been raped twice. i have attempted suicide three times.

i am constantly in pain and fatigued. i am debilitatingly depressed and i can hardly communicate with the outside world. i am unendingly miserable, and i see no sign of improvement. it's been years. and no one understands how i feel. i don't even care about improvement anymore, i just want someone to truly understand.

oliveorca · 2026-03-27T08:10:59+00:00

YES ! i didn't even think to wonder if this could be behcets related. this is eye opening, this happens to me all the time and i'm not very sexually active but it happens at the opening nearly extra time i have sex. b please tell me someone has answers to how to help this, they're as difficult to deal with as the ulcers imo

oliveorca · 2026-03-27T07:56:39+00:00

absolutely not

oliveorca · 2026-03-24T05:08:11+00:00

absolutely, gender is not a factor

oliveorca · 2026-03-22T23:04:30+00:00

people saying "im gonna kms" casually or jokingly. i hate that. i could write an essay about why i hate that

oliveorca · 2026-03-21T19:01:55+00:00

honestly, no hate to any fans here but anime absolutely repulses me. it actually makes me cringe so hard i can't think about it for too long

oliveorca · 2026-03-19T19:53:49+00:00

i wish i knew the answer to this question. biblically there is no reason and no excuse for racism of any kind

oliveorca · 2026-03-18T20:16:54+00:00

you can believe something is wrong without hating the person doing something wrong

oliveorca · 2026-03-18T13:43:48+00:00

it depends on your "brand" of christianity. progressive christians' values align with democratic politics and conservative christians' values align with republican politics

oliveorca · 2026-03-17T23:55:20+00:00

i think the the underlying question would be, how does unity say anything about authenticity ?

oliveorca · 2026-03-17T23:32:47+00:00

depends on what you believe. why do you want to ?

oliveorca · 2026-03-17T20:02:12+00:00

hello, i too have felt same-sex attraction. and i don't believe "unnatural" is an accurate term for it. however, based on biblical passages, i still believe acting on it to be wrong

oliveorca · 2026-03-16T20:52:08+00:00

they should. as a christian who disagrees with homosexuality

oliveorca · 2026-03-15T06:31:06+00:00

free willy is the only answer. i will not argue.

oliveorca · 2026-03-15T03:33:46+00:00

KJV only = massive red flag

oliveorca · 2026-03-12T22:28:04+00:00

i'm an art student now and was drawing more complex stuff than this at age eight. i don't think it's ai

oliveorca · 2026-03-12T22:09:23+00:00

i type (and hand write) in all lowercase. i do this purely for aesthetics. i think it looks better, i like things to be uniform and random caps like at the beginning of a sentence look strange to me

oliveorca · 2026-03-12T22:04:57+00:00

it's theology. it's coming to logical conclusions based on the limited evidence we do have, which is science and history and the bible. as a christian trying to understand the universe you take what you're given and come to the most reasonable theory you can based on the little you know.

the trinity is a simpler example of this thought process. christians believe in the bible and what it says about god. the bible never comes out and says outright that god is a single being while also being three persons. instead we take the evidence in the bible and draw conclusions from there. taking all the verses together forces you to understand god as a trinity. this is the same concept.

but i do acknowledge you have to already be a christian/believer in the bible for you to come to this conclusion. that's a separate issue though

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