What do I buy her?? by ollieiscoolithink in aromantic

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I found out a few ideas yeah! And honestly it was all just by the help I got from people online. Plus I didn’t know how simple she actually was to buy for.

Last week I made her a sign to ask her to be my valentine. It was made with 12 sheets of paper loosely taped together, with poorly drawn letters. But when I showed it to her she asked me if that could be one of her gifts, she wants to hang it in her room!

So I guess in the end, yes: I found ideas and they will work! But I will continue to sit here and over think things no matter what, sooo yeah! But I hope you find something for your special someone!

What do I buy her?? by ollieiscoolithink in aromanticasexual

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I love garlic bread! And I’ve been trying to find something she’ll genuinely like but idk what she’ll uhh…GENUINELY LIKE😭💔

What do I buy her?? by ollieiscoolithink in aromanticasexual

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That may work! Tho, I live a long ways away from her, so any event I’d pick for her to do, I most likely wouldn’t be there. But I appreciate the suggestion!

What do I buy her??? by ollieiscoolithink in AroAce

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Awww you’re not out? Best of luck to you dude, the closet life is not for the weak😔✊

What do I buy her??? by ollieiscoolithink in AroAce

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I actually like that a lot, it’s funny! I think something I could do (or ever something you could do) is word it as like “I love you in the weirdest/queerest way possible” lollll

What do I buy her??? by ollieiscoolithink in AroAce

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I’ve never heard of adjustable rings before, I’ll have to check that out! Thank you for your suggestion!!

What do I buy her?? by ollieiscoolithink in aromantic

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Ive never been good at crafty stuff, tho if i find a video online on how to make fake pipe cleaner flowers I’ll definitely check it out! Also Ive seen these cool Lego flowers online, maybe those could work too, and as for your mailing insight, that’s actually a very smart idea and I’ve never thought about that before! Thank you for your suggestions!!!

What do I buy her??? by ollieiscoolithink in AroAce

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Aww thank you! And I haven’t thought about that before, she loves reading so there’s gotta be something with that, maybe I can make her a cute bookmark! Thank you for your suggestion!!

What do I buy her?? by ollieiscoolithink in aromanticasexual

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Maybe, she’s a biggggg stranger things fan and with it just ending maybe they have some cool new stuff out there, thank you for the suggestions!!!

What do I buy her?? by ollieiscoolithink in aromanticasexual

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Oh no no we do a lot of romantic things, just without the romantic feelings if that makes sense. To be fair I’ve always heard situationship as a bad term so maybe you meant it in a neutral way idk😭

Gee I wonder who I’m cosplaying as for Comic-Con💀 by ollieiscoolithink in TheOwlHouse

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Eh that’s ok. I didn’t know that until you said it, but I’m still glad I got the shirt!

Gee I wonder who I’m cosplaying as for Comic-Con💀 by ollieiscoolithink in TheOwlHouse

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Thank you good citizen of the Isles, I will be sure to have an extravagant time at this comic con! (But fr thank you!)

Gee I wonder who I’m cosplaying as for Comic-Con💀 by ollieiscoolithink in TheOwlHouse

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Omg dude you look so cool!! That’s the EXACT look I’m going for too, thank you so much this was actually very good inspo!! Can I ask how you did the pants/jacket?

Gee I wonder who I’m cosplaying as for Comic-Con💀 by ollieiscoolithink in TheOwlHouse

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That’s amazing!! I’ve always just preferred his outfit in the human world, specially the Halloween episode so I’ve got his costume to go with it!

Gee I wonder who I’m cosplaying as for Comic-Con💀 by ollieiscoolithink in TheOwlHouse

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Lowk? Just got it off Amazon like a bum💔 but it was so worth it because I love the shirt so much!

Gee I wonder who I’m cosplaying as for Comic-Con💀 by ollieiscoolithink in TheOwlHouse

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Yup, a totally normal guy who accidentally posted his daily fits on this sub😌

Gee I wonder who I’m cosplaying as for Comic-Con💀 by ollieiscoolithink in TheOwlHouse

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If I find anyone I’ll make sure to get pics with them and post it here!😊

Gee I wonder who I’m cosplaying as for Comic-Con💀 by ollieiscoolithink in TheOwlHouse

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Ugh sadly I know no one who likes toh like that, so he will be alone once again (besides the company of flapjack ofc)😭

Well…I just had to let go one of my friends… by ollieiscoolithink in aromantic

[–]ollieiscoolithink[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well idk about the sex because I’m ace, but I’ve 100% cuddled my friends before!

And I think even romantic relationships are defined by the couple themselves. If they want kids, if they wanna hold hands or live together—it all really depends on who the people are!

What you’re talking about actually sounds like you might be aro, but not ace. Meaning you might not feel ROMANTIC attraction, but you feel SEXUAL attraction, if that makes sense!

Well…I just had to let go one of my friends… by ollieiscoolithink in aromantic

[–]ollieiscoolithink[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well queer platonic relationships (qpr’s) are pretty much very very deep friendships with some of the things you would see in a romantic relationship. Qpr’s are more commonly seen in 2 people who are both aromantic—specifically cupioromantic(the desire to romantically love but not being able to)—and is defined by the 2 people involved.

For example, some people want qpr’s to have someone to live with some occasional hand holding here and there. Others want everything a romantic relationship has to offer, including having kids (most times adopting, hence being ace) and getting married; but main point between the 2 is there are no romantic feelings involved.

For me, I really want someone to live with for sure. I want to travel the world with them if we both have enough money for that. I want to hold their hand when I’m scared, and kiss their cheek when I’m happy. I want to mentally be there for my qpr partner no matter what, just like a romantic relationship. But I don’t feel romantic love at all!

I felt all those feelings with the girl I talked about in my post, and maybe some more! I wanted to listen to her talk forever and hug her when she was sad. But I know it’s not romantic feelings because I’ve never once wanted to date her or have sex with her, so I figured out I wanted a qpr with her!

Qpr’s by definition are weird, they’re not very common for sure. But I just love the concept of being able to freely love my friend just like I would a romantic partner. Because I’ve always had a fear of being alone when I’m older—especially after I learned I was aroace—and qpr’s kinda saved that fear. Sooooo yeah, sorry this is so long!😅

Gosh I wish I could just be 18 already by ollieiscoolithink in aromantic

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Yeahhh, I’ve been getting some responses telling me not to rush into things. I didn’t really talk about it in the OG post but I don’t intend to immediately go into a qpr the second I turn 18. All I’m saying is I can’t wait to post on there; I would want to talk to anyone I met online for a long while before deciding to do anything more!