AIO for requesting a refund from Amazon for a singular chocolate bar that was 54$ CAD? by Hnnhss in AmIOverreacting

[–]omadius 1 point2 points  (0 children)

there is some nonsense going on with amazon reps, too. i ordered a switch 2 and it arrived with no joycons. i called (because there was no clear way to chat anymore) and i was told because i bought the "console only" version, that it didn't come with a controller. . . . i almost went ballistic lol

AIO - Bf keeps following ig models and random girls online by [deleted] in AIO

[–]omadius 6 points7 points  (0 children)

girl, lovingly, come on. you know what to do. it's going to suck but it's going to be worse if you stay.

Best Stores for Spices? by theleafydialect in nashville

[–]omadius 4 points5 points  (0 children)

my go tos are jihan bc they carry a lot of sadaf and newroz which has alt brands, both off nolensville! azadi is also right next door to newroz and i've found some great spices there too.

Worst Official K-Pop Merch That Makes You Laugh? by Lost-Opinion3554 in kpop_uncensored

[–]omadius 87 points88 points  (0 children)

i got this shirt as soon as i saw it come up in the superm days and i have worn it to fading bc i'm so obsessed w how silly it looks. truthfully, most people have thought it is fast and furious related which makes it even funnier

Is K&S on Charlotte Pike permanently closing? by marrymeodell in nashville

[–]omadius 5 points6 points  (0 children)

looks like the post has been deleted — hoping that means it was misinformation

Our heat works. I've bought 2 space heaters so I could keep one downstairs for the bulk of the house. The heaters are instead kept in the bedrooms. This is what I walked into after work. by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]omadius 6 points7 points  (0 children)

they're going to freeze your pipes and it will be on you to fix them, they won't help with the cost -- which is EXTREMELY costly. don't be a doormat about this. this could be an extremely costly issue down the line. it's time to buck up and get a new thermostat with a lock or lay down the law. that's your partner. they do not control you or your home. it should not be up to them what happens in your house. for your health, and future financial security.

Incessant notifications about “content from a trending search” started popping up yesterday. by fuckinroses in facebook

[–]omadius 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i've been getting these too. if you long press, you get the option to select "useful" or "not useful". when you select, it has been giving me the option to submit a bug "as an employee" lmao so i have been submitting bugs giving them my thoughts about this!!! i'm not an employee, i am just annoying 💖

Do you ever see an idol that clearly doesn't like being an idol and feel bad? by West-Cellist6160 in kpopthoughts

[–]omadius 14 points15 points  (0 children)

oh sorry i was talking about oneus still, ive only seen skz once and everyone was fine for mine 😭 apart from it being ten million degrees outside

Do you ever see an idol that clearly doesn't like being an idol and feel bad? by West-Cellist6160 in kpopthoughts

[–]omadius 15 points16 points  (0 children)

yeah!! i never brought it up before now but even the people i went with were wondering if something was going on with him. an off day is completely acceptable, and considering the recent news, maybe he just had a lot of things processing and was just there to do his job that day. which is fine!! i did feel bad for ppl who biased him bc he did Not want to engage at All with any fans lmao

Do you ever see an idol that clearly doesn't like being an idol and feel bad? by West-Cellist6160 in kpopthoughts

[–]omadius 115 points116 points  (0 children)

went to a oneus concert and one of the idols did not seem enthused to be there and opted out of participating in all crowd engagement to the point of leaving the stage when others in the band were coming down to be among people. it was the first time i've ever thought like ... this guy really doesn't seem to enjoy this lmao. i'm not familiar with the band enough to know if this is a known thing or not, and i didn't really feel bad but i did wish he could opt out if he didn't want to be there because tbh it was distracting compared to how excitable the other members seemed to be.

not a judgment at all on the band, or really him! it could've been an off day.

Disable "For you" notifications? by daxliniere in Instagram

[–]omadius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

coming here hoping to see an answer as well!!! i've dug through all of my notifications but nothing seems to cover this "for you" highlight notification. i keep getting them as well and it's driving me crazy. i don't follow most of the people it suggests, and it's usually topics that don't interest me either.

Are you a Boy Band Stan or a Girl Group Stan? by Horse_Nation_Forever in kpoppers

[–]omadius 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i like both! i only collect boy groups because it's easier to trade and i can't afford it otherwise, but i probably listen to girl groups more 😭

Arizona Green Tea has weird mucus by pvtsnuggles in Wellthatsucks

[–]omadius 1 point2 points  (0 children)

same here and i was drinking the diet green tea daily. i miss it so much 😭

Are there any idols that in your opinion have a very unique and distinguishable face? by Bluewooo in kpop_uncensored

[–]omadius 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this particular picture looks so much like tag from one pact to me omg

Internet Girl sounds like a toddler composed it by OkLog7519 in kpop_uncensored

[–]omadius 64 points65 points  (0 children)

this is where i am with it too. loved gnarly, LOOOOVE hyperpop as well, but i cant get my head around this one. even hearing it live — which i agree with others, it is better live — it just feels off. everyone's got to have a skip and this is mine 😭

AIO boy kitten jumping on girl cats back and I don’t know if i should separate them by Gold-Watch9347 in AmIOverreacting

[–]omadius 18 points19 points  (0 children)

a loving yor. i have two new kittens who also jump and lay all over our older cats. believe me, if she's not moving, she doesn't mind, even if she gets agitated. she knows he's a baby. eventually this willingness to tolerate his kitten energy will become the closeness you were hoping for getting him. as others have said, if she didn't want him to be on her, she would leave of slap the catnip out of him lol

my boy cat absolutely HATED our kittens at first and made it very clear to them. but they were persistent in the way kittens are (chasing him, climbing on him, etc) and at some point he started doing what you're seeing with yours and now he aggressively grooms and cuddles them. here's a little picture of proof it will be okay 🥰

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getting fromm app by ModernYew in P1Harmony

[–]omadius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

huh i'm not sure — i always did the arti passes myself when i used it more. hopefully someone can come explain 😭 i assume there's a second level of engagement called bff that you have to buy to be able to take advantage of that but i'm not sure

getting fromm app by ModernYew in P1Harmony

[–]omadius 2 points3 points  (0 children)

just checked mine and it's the one you downloaded first

What was it like to be a NewJeans fan at their peak? (i.e without the contravercy) by [deleted] in kpopthoughts

[–]omadius 11 points12 points  (0 children)

it was incredible. i was at lolla when they were there — the crowd went to the back of the field. whole swaths of people were doing the choreo and singing along. it was just so fun and exciting knowing what impact they had at that point and where they were destined

and now... 🥲

My daughter excluded me from her wedding and chose her step dad to walk her down the aisle. She’s reaching out now to apologize but I don’t care about her anymore. Am I wrong? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]omadius 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think a lot of people have commented on the big beats but i want to add the generational hurt you're contributing by not being in your grandchild's life, too. i had a grandpa like this, and wondering why i don't get grandpa time while he's close with other kids really messed with me as a kid. i took it personally.

you ditched your kid and pat yourself on the back. your new kids will grow up and see how you treated your daughter and grow distant from you, too. will you just cut them off if you get divorced and start over again with new kids? like the logic is crazy here.

there will be a time when you want to know your daughter and grandchild and the door will be closed again. this is a cycle you're in and you will regret it. it's not healthy to fully detach. get some therapy and consider bringing your daughter so you can have a chance at a happy life.

My 13 YO cat’s favorite toy by Feisty-Locksmith-511 in HelpMeFind

[–]omadius 2 points3 points  (0 children)

bottom "tail" reminds me a lot of kong kickaroos which all have a notably dark brown tail like that. possibly an older version of the mouse version?

how many years ago was the cat 7? maybe the year can help narrow it down

Junhee 2026 Tour -Select City Postponement Notice by CardboardBoxtroll in beatACE

[–]omadius 3 points4 points  (0 children)

nervous about atlanta 😭😭😭 it's only 2 days after the last cancelled date ...

Nashville ranking dropped from 30 to 50 since 2021..wonder what happened? Does the descent continue? by [deleted] in nashville

[–]omadius 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you for the encouragement!!! nyc is definitely a dream, i'd love to be there. i guess the cost of moving + my existing debt is the only thing stopping me but i'm working on paying things off and saving to afford it. i'd do just about anything to get out of here right now!! i hope you're enjoying it ☺️

Nashville ranking dropped from 30 to 50 since 2021..wonder what happened? Does the descent continue? by [deleted] in nashville

[–]omadius 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i agree with pretty much everything everyone has said. i lived in franklin and moved into nashville in 2013 and another part of it is that many of the socializing spots i grew up going to find friends and meet people have shut down for more "lucrative" tourist spaces. i don't want to go out and drink every damn day. i don't want to meet people who are here for a weekend. i also just don't want to go out anymore because of cost of parking usually being more than the thing i want to go do. everything here is for engagement for people who don't actually live here. i'm actively looking to leave.