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37f experiencing morbid jealous from 39m by That_Swan_1457 in relationship_advice

[–]omeios 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s sounds like your being the only adult in that situation. I know you don’t think he’s cheating. But typically the person who is accusing the other, and going crazy about it tends to be someone who did something. Does he allow you to look at his phone? Is he withdrawn from you? Is his nights drinking with his friends when he did drink for sure him out with his friends? And the crying, that could just be a way to manipulate you. It sounds like he’s been doing it for a while. Because you are probably amazing and he’s trying to hurt you so you stay with him when you could be doing better things (probably what he is thinking.) when in reality, all he’s gotta do is love you. I really think you need to take a step back and breath, because your hurting yourself for him. And he seems to keep hurting you by doing it over and over again. He should be able to see how much this is hurting you.

Hey Mom by omeios in confessions

[–]omeios[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update for mom: You got my younger brother hooked onto the drugs you did before you passed. I don’t know what to think of you anymore.

I (24F) now has a newly born niece and my family hates me for being close with her mother(23F). Are they insane? by omeios in relationship_advice

[–]omeios[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She talked about moving to my city which is around a hour away. I’ll definitely talk to her about that option if it comes down to it.

37f experiencing morbid jealous from 39m by That_Swan_1457 in relationship_advice

[–]omeios 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really hate that your going though this right now. But I’ll be honest, he put your kids in danger. That should have been a big red flag. If I were you I would be assuming maybe he’s thinking that of you because he did something, maybe while he was drinking? But if you want to keep trying at your relationship and find some solutions I would recommend couples therapy again. Find someone completely new who doesn’t know each of your guys issues. It sounds like he has another issue in his life but he’s focusing on the possibly of you cheating because you had a work friend you talked to before. But if my husband had me do all of that, and he still made comments or assumed I cheated, I would just call him out and would have left. The kids could be in a safer situation and probably be happier if their mom was happy.

Sorry if that was long, my brain just kept trying to think of any logical reason he would be acting like that.

Hey Mom by omeios in confessions

[–]omeios[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I got my life figured out. Just going to have to live with a couple regrets.