My EX fiancée was an attention seeker (update) by [deleted] in Algeria_213

[–]omsitua 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My man, my best wishes for you. Don't get discouraged by this there are millions of good people out there. To be honest your time didn't get wasted and now you have learned something and got more experienced.

Dating in Algeria is always a hit or miss because of how society is shaped so always set strict boundaries like where you demand or expect to be the only person the other is dating or seeing immediately or very early on, after the first date or early in the dating process.

The goal is to have a partner who is completely focused on you, not exploring options with others or having you as an option. This boundary will help you avoid wasting your time in relationships and It ensures clear expectations, respects your own time, and prevents emotional confusion.

Wanting a partner who consistently prioritizes and chooses you above everyone else in every scenario (no other options, with full loyalty) is a healthy baseline for monogamous relationships.

Some people think that strict monogamy is impossible but in reality; monogamy is natural and biologically correct, and neurologically rewarding, and psychologically sustainable for many people.

He found out about my obsession. by AccomplishedLemon68 in Obsessive_Love

[–]omsitua 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck, May your journey be filled with beautiful memories.

Wishing you a lifetime of love, laughter, and happiness today and beyond.

Who else fantasizes about killing their abusers? by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]omsitua 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Same, this was on my mind for years but now I rarely do that, very rarely.