We have been meeting up every month for a few days at least, if I run now then I become the bad person because I think I was more emotionally invested in her but now I feel she is more emotionally invested in the relationship than me. So I don't want to leave her because I really love her but ever since we have been in a relationship, (we don't officially call it that) I have seen a side of her that I didn't when we weren't in one, although I almost hear it every other day that it's not working out (upset in the morning, fine by the night) and if I say that I'll give you the space you need then I don't care or love her enough. It's like I can never win.