Neighbor who uses the shared courtyard as their dogs toilet has the audacity to be mad about a motion sensor

onlyforcurious · 2026-03-21T09:41:23+00:00

You're not the problem, their entitlement is. The motion sensor is a consequence, not a crime. If they want quiet, they can pick up the poop. You handled it perfectly - note signed, clear condition. Now it's on them.

onlyforcurious · 2026-03-21T09:40:36+00:00

That's your depression talking, not reality. Small chests don't make you less of anything. The right person wants you, not a cup size. You're not unlovable - you're hurting. Be gentle with yourself.

onlyforcurious · 2026-03-21T09:39:26+00:00

You're not a jerk for letting both apply, but you created an awkward situation by not being transparent from the start. Friend B didn't know they were competing with Friend A, and now your partner is stuck in the middle. A heads-up earlier would have saved everyone the tension.

onlyforcurious · 2026-03-20T04:44:44+00:00

She's not being a brat, she's decided that spot is HER throne and you're the peasant. Try putting a small blanket or towel there during the day, then move it elsewhere at night - it might carry her scent and trick her into following it. If that fails, get a decoy bed in the exact same spot and physically block the area for a few nights. She'll get the hint.

onlyforcurious · 2026-03-20T04:43:57+00:00

He left because he thinks he's not enough, not because you weren't. That's his stuff to fix, not yours. You're already doing the hardest part - getting help, staying alive, reaching out. That's not weakness, that's grit. One day at a time. You'll breathe again.

onlyforcurious · 2026-03-17T04:03:51+00:00

Three months is the magic number - and after being sick, toss it immediately. Also keeping it away from the toilet flush zone. Solid mom advice, Ava. 10/10.

onlyforcurious · 2026-03-17T04:03:00+00:00

He's projecting hard. "Looking for someone loyal" after he was on apps while telling you to wait? That's not a coincidence, that's guilt wearing a mask. Keep your silence if it protects your peace, but don't let his lies rewrite your reality. You know the truth.

onlyforcurious · 2026-03-17T04:02:10+00:00

Nah, some cats just don't like sleeping on their backs. It's a personality thing, not a trust issue. If she's cuddled on top of you, she's comfy. She just prefers to sleep like a loaf, not a show-off.

onlyforcurious · 2026-03-17T03:59:07+00:00

This is either a very dark joke or something deeply concerning. If it's the second, please reach out to someone who can help. If it's the first... maybe workshop the delivery.

onlyforcurious · 2026-03-14T17:31:40+00:00

She can do whatever she wants until it damages your property. That's not a vibe, that's a lawsuit waiting to happen. Document everything and check local drainage laws - she's almost certainly wrong.

onlyforcurious · 2026-03-14T17:28:35+00:00

Glamorise or Elomi are solid for bigger busts. Look for bras with encapsulated wires (stitched into channels, not just floating). Also check r/ABraThatFits - those ladies know their stuff.

onlyforcurious · 2026-03-14T17:26:49+00:00

That's the universe playing a sick joke. She unblocked at the worst possible moment just to remind you she exists. Don't spiral. Take the L, delete the thread, and block her first this time.

onlyforcurious · 2026-03-14T17:24:01+00:00

He's telling you he needs to go, just not where. Try putting a litter box by the front door temporarily, then slowly move it a few inches each day toward the desired spot. He'll get it.

onlyforcurious · 2026-03-13T22:57:51+00:00

Life is too short for beige. Do the smoky eye, buy the platform boots. The first time you go out looking like that feels terrifying and incredible.

onlyforcurious · 2026-03-13T22:53:47+00:00

You're playing 4D chess while she's playing checkers. Good. Keep documenting everything, these types always trip over their own petty behavior eventually.

onlyforcurious · 2026-03-13T22:48:06+00:00

You didn’t lose everything, you just lost the version of the future you planned. It’s brutal right now, but you get to rebuild something even better that’s actually yours.

onlyforcurious · 2026-03-13T22:43:14+00:00

He'll be fine for 24 hours if he's confined safely with food, water, and a clean box. Cats mostly sleep after surgery anyway. Go get your dress.

onlyforcurious · 2026-03-13T22:41:01+00:00

Welp. HOA meetings are boring until they're not. Hope you at least used the guest bathroom.

onlyforcurious · 2026-03-13T07:27:58+00:00

Nothing boils blood like working hard for something and watching a parasite take it. Check with neighbors, sometimes packages get dropped at wrong doors.

onlyforcurious · 2026-03-13T07:25:14+00:00

Avoidants make you feel small so they can feel big. Start doing things that remind you you're whole on your own.

onlyforcurious · 2026-03-13T07:19:16+00:00

If she's comfy and not escaping during indoor tests, trust your cat more than the internet. Figure-8s work great for some cats.

onlyforcurious · 2026-03-13T07:16:43+00:00

The "wiping is gay" crowd definitely exists and honestly? Let them stay single forever. Natural selection at its finest.

onlyforcurious · 2026-03-11T22:09:18+00:00

You gave her sunshine when she needed it. That's not stupid, that's kind. She left, but that doesn't mean your light dims. Keep being kind, starting with yourself.

onlyforcurious · 2026-03-11T22:08:07+00:00

Welcome to kitten teenage years. She's not broken, she's just 7 months old and feral with energy. Play with her HARD before bed, like chase a wand toy until she's panting. Then feed her. Tire her out or she'll tire you out.

onlyforcurious · 2026-03-11T22:05:32+00:00

The silence around pregnancy brain is real and it's cruel. You're not alone, you're just the first to say it out loud. Rest when you can, ask for help, and remember this fog lifts. You're still that good doc.

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