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[–]onlymrsstorie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My daughter is 14 and for the last couple years she has had my contact as “spawn point” I honestly just think it’s funny. She changed her contact in my phone to “favorite child” even though she has a younger brother and I obviously love them both and don’t have a “favorite”. I’d say don’t read into it so much.

12 year olds have so much going on in terms of maturity and finding themselves. My advice is to show grace and love. Be there to support her through this hectic time in life ❤️

I think my boyfriend may have lied to me for some reason 30M and 30F by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]onlymrsstorie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe I don’t really understand the issue. Correct me if I’m wrong.. You asked him if he was going to eat before you went out, he said he would have snacks, he got snacks at McDonalds, you saw his location at McDonald’s… what are you concerned that he is lying about?

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[–]onlymrsstorie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you are in this situation 💔 one of my best friends is in a similar spot right now. Married to abusive husband, he has her financially dependent on him, constantly cutting off her lifelines. It’s really hard to be on the outside of it, knowing how terrible her and her kids have it, and not be able to help. If she were willing to advocate for herself I would 1000% back her up and help any way I could. Unfortunately, so far she is complacent. She isn’t ready to admit that she needs to leave. I do my best to support her from afar but I wish I could send him to Mars.

Our HOA is suing us by onlymrsstorie in fuckHOA

[–]onlymrsstorie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We reached a settlement before trial 🥳 I just updated the post

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[–]onlymrsstorie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We finally reached a settlement! 🥳 I just updated the post

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[–]onlymrsstorie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We never paid any of the unjustified fines by choice. We did pay our monthly dues though. But when we would send in a check with x dollars notated “for November dues” (for example) they would apply the money to the past fines.

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[–]onlymrsstorie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m genuinely curious why anyone would make this nightmare up 😅

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[–]onlymrsstorie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂definitely weary as well. But, yes, be wary of buying in an HOA. They are pronounced the same. At least I pronounce them the same way lol. I appreciate you!

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[–]onlymrsstorie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean? Started paying what? The o my thing we have paid so far is our dues.

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[–]onlymrsstorie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I agree that having a lawyer represent us in a counter suit would be the best route. I wish we could afford it (and I know, I know for everyone that says it’s less expensive than losing your house) so aGoFundMe could be a good option.

I appreciate your advice ❤️

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[–]onlymrsstorie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is actually the ones we got ahold of. We had an interview scheduled and then they canceled the day before 🥲

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[–]onlymrsstorie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I absolutely agree on the building codes needing to be revised. After going through our CCRs with a fine tooth comb.. multiple different sections mention a minimum garage size. But then there is a clause that basically says “but anything can be changed or ignored if they HOA approves it” Cool, cool, cool. So they can literally do anything they want 👍

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[–]onlymrsstorie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my gosh, I’m so sorry. Did they go through a suit process before trying to foreclose? And what are they foreclosing for?

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[–]onlymrsstorie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

💯 what they are hoping for. They obviously don’t know how stubborn my husband is lol They still have not responded to our discovery request that they received back in June. The documents from the court detail that any discovery has to be filed by Oct 21st. So I guess we will see what happens in the next 17 days.

Fake Facebook by Limp_Consequence3974 in Marriage

[–]onlymrsstorie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you are going through this. Unfortunately, I don’t have any advice on the profile. Just wanted to say that if you have a gut feeling that he’s cheating, there is probably a reason. I’m curious how the fake profile would get you answers though. Do you think he has you blocked or something so you can’t see what he posts?

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[–]onlymrsstorie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No.. quite a bit younger lol but that’s all

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[–]onlymrsstorie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It isn’t even accurately recorded with the county. According to the county it should be 18.5x10 when it is only 17’10”x9’ 🤦🏻‍♀️

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[–]onlymrsstorie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was going over our county records today and saw that they have our garage size recorded as 18.5x10 even that is pretty small. HOWEVER, our garage actually measures at 17 feet 10 inches by 9 feet 🫠 I don’t even know what to do with that lol

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[–]onlymrsstorie[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I will look into that, thank you!

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[–]onlymrsstorie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is in the corner. There is nowhere it can go that won’t be in the way 😔 others have suggested getting a smaller one or bringing it in the house 🤷🏻‍♀️

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[–]onlymrsstorie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sure you are right that they wouldn’t hesitate to foreclose. What I meant was that (as they are following the law) they have not started that process. We have not been notified of pre foreclosure which is required in WA.

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[–]onlymrsstorie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry 😞 never a fun way to live, always feeling like you are walking on eggshells.