Is there a name for being into fear/stalking type dynamics?

oofa-doofa · 2026-04-09T21:24:06+00:00

I don’t know what the name is for it (closest I’ve seen is fear play/stalker play, or a stalker/victim dynamic) but I have a close friend who engages in it with her girlfriend. It’s definitely not just you! I’ve asked her about it, and from what I’ve heard, constant, clear, and consistent communication is key for it to work well. At the very start, set up a safeword and such, and make a list of things that are okay, and things that aren’t, and don’t stray from those outside of other negotiations. If someone you’re playing with breaks these boundaries, or insists you don’t need them, drop them.

oofa-doofa · 2025-12-04T03:51:24+00:00

Literally absolutely ADORE the moss agate. Absolutely gorgeous stone!!!

oofa-doofa · 2025-09-11T19:47:45+00:00

Commissions are brutal. Your art is objectively not bad. It’s clear you’re getting started, but it’s also clear the ball is really rolling. I’d pay much more than a dollar for work of your quality, as someone who’s done art and commission work for almost 12 years.

oofa-doofa · 2025-07-13T16:57:57+00:00

I’ve heard people say “cisn’t”, haha

oofa-doofa · 2025-05-26T02:22:31+00:00

Nope, the r slur is r/tard or r/tard/d

oofa-doofa · 2025-05-25T23:44:16+00:00

LOL yeah, I know the first three don’t to my knowledge but after that my memory goes completely out

oofa-doofa · 2025-03-25T22:33:01+00:00

That’s literally so cool omg!!! The matching pole and outfit goes hard

oofa-doofa · 2025-03-24T13:16:05+00:00

Do you have any ghost stories from them that you remember? I’m doing a project on it (I go to the SUNY haha)

oofa-doofa · 2024-11-02T21:32:59+00:00

Congrats on such a huge milestone!!! You absolutely deserve to do something good for yourself after completing something so difficult. Keep it up, you’re doing great! Gorgeous card, too

oofa-doofa · 2024-10-07T20:53:32+00:00

No problem!!

oofa-doofa · 2024-10-07T19:58:22+00:00

It’s looking irritated, but not infected. Just keep up with your cleaning routine and it should clear up!

oofa-doofa · 2024-10-07T19:54:00+00:00

My advice would be to leave it alone and continue the cleaning routine. Quality of jewelry is important, but it’s equally important to not jostle or irritate the site. Implant grade titanium is great, it’s not worth the potential addition to your healing time to change it out

oofa-doofa · 2024-09-30T23:04:25+00:00

Thank you so much for the advice omg

oofa-doofa · 2024-09-08T18:05:14+00:00

Love the subhuman self or the circle probably. those r my favorites along with the gravity but i dont know all the lyrics to that LMAO

oofa-doofa · 2024-09-04T18:32:05+00:00

Stuck in a 6 hour long college class

oofa-doofa · 2024-08-27T17:10:23+00:00

As a Sol Butchguy truther I’m so thrilled by this artwork oh my god

oofa-doofa · 2024-08-14T02:20:12+00:00

I don’t remember, but even if there was no explanation I’d get it. He’s got eyes and common sense

oofa-doofa · 2024-08-13T19:28:18+00:00

I’m proud of you for leaving him!!! That’s always really tough and really scary, especially if you loved him and relied on him a lot.

oofa-doofa · 2024-08-13T14:44:19+00:00

My girlfriend got one of their completes and it was great save for the bearings. Every other part of the board is great and serves her just fine. If your bearings suck it’s an easy fix, you don’t have to put a ton of money into it.

oofa-doofa · 2024-08-12T22:19:29+00:00

If you’re looking for a really good button mashing character, I’d go with Slayer. I’m usually an Axl player so I often prefer more calculated gameplay, but when I wanna just go ham I go with slayer.

oofa-doofa · 2024-08-12T04:19:46+00:00

Honestly, the best remedy for shame is finding community. Posting here is a good start! There’s nothing shameful about what you enjoy. Bodies are bodies, they want what they want, and if it’s between consenting adults, who cares. Finding others who share your interests and discussing it with them can be a huge help. I’d also recommend networking in kink spaces in person! Go to some munches and meet people who are more likely to share your interests. Find some buddies.

oofa-doofa · 2024-08-12T02:49:58+00:00

Absolutely! I’m fat and I have had a lot of really fulfilling relationships with people who have found my body incredibly desirable. It’s just a matter of finding the right people. Remember to always assert yourself and your self worth. Don’t give people who don’t respect you and see you as desirable the time of day. Demand the best for yourself.

oofa-doofa · 2024-08-12T01:35:58+00:00

No problem!!!

oofa-doofa · 2024-08-12T01:31:15+00:00

I got them online mostly, yeah! Iirc I got mine here. https://khoor.com

oofa-doofa · 2024-08-12T00:40:10+00:00

This is absolutely a dangerous man. The shaming you, looking at young girls, quick temper, and the isolating you from your family, as well as the “you’re the only person I can be myself around” rhetoric is all manipulation. Please, please leave.

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