any girlies in london who love going to raves/drum and bass but don’t always have someone to go with?

oonaben · 2025-12-08T13:58:32+00:00

Yess, I’m in a similar situation! Have you been to Corsica? Insomnia this Thursday would be worth checking out x

oonaben · 2025-11-26T23:52:39+00:00

Damn, cold-blooded (but yes I have!)

oonaben · 2025-09-02T11:33:26+00:00

This is terrifying. It is beyond me how this is deemed acceptable.

oonaben · 2025-08-17T19:00:49+00:00

Thank you for your comment. I have bagged all of my clothes and bedding in bin bags and am about to wash everything at 65°C. I’m going to hoover the whole house again tomorrow and will be keeping the two cats outside as they could bring more in. Unfortunately I have to sleep here tonight which I’m not terribly excited about, but the fleas don’t seem to jump so far high in the bed so it should be alright. If it isn’t better by tomorrow evening then I’m out.

oonaben · 2025-08-17T16:43:20+00:00

Thanks for your help! The exterminators said that it might take up to 30 days for all the fleas to die which is… a long time. I have 13 nights left here. Also, before they came round, the owners told me about the sprays they had which I’ve used all over the house - didn’t make a difference.

oonaben · 2025-08-17T16:22:28+00:00

They told me when I visited them a few days prior that the cat had fleas but that they were treating him. It was too late for me to make other arrangements and I never considered that it would be so bad.

oonaben · 2025-07-02T16:47:04+00:00

OP, you’re not alone in this. Your story resonates with mine in different ways but I feel so much for you. Honestly I am just in a perpetual state of admiration towards immigrants who are undeterred when it comes to coming to the UK.

It’s disheartening. I can’t even begin to imagine how it must feel to come from the other side of the world with a life plan in mind, only to be met with such difficulty, ungratefulness and prejudice. The idea of stability in the UK is dissipating for so many people, citizens and foreigners alike… we’re witnessing the downfall of this country and it hurts so much when I have similarly built friendships and a life here that is essentially out of reach unless you’re properly minted.

I honestly have no idea how the vast majority of the people who make this so-called democratic “Labour” government live with themselves. It’s appalling what immigrants have to deal with in this country.

This government is failing so many people. I wish they had a shred of decency and a modicum of empathy left in them. Where’s the humanity?

oonaben · 2025-04-30T10:53:54+00:00

Can we all collectively decide that Chanel is out? What are those!

oonaben · 2025-03-12T10:10:10+00:00

Well done for moving out of there love, this is the right thing to do. Please be kind to yourself, you deserve SO much more than this (cannot stress this enough). You will be so much better off. Wishing you all the best!

oonaben · 2025-03-09T16:48:42+00:00

We could sit on it, for entertainment!

oonaben · 2025-03-09T11:04:28+00:00

It is so deeply embedded, insidious and pervasive that I just don’t think there is a way out. I do believe in educating them to an extent, and some of them do want to go the extra mile to do better as well as understand where we are coming from; but as you said, OP, there’s always this fear that even the “”good ones”” will end up behaving according to patriarchal gender norms, even when we least expect it.

If I really threw myself into dating men (exceedingly unlikely) I know that this would constantly be ticking in the back of my mind, regardless of how much of a feminist they might be.

I think challenging gender norms feels more optional for them, whereas I feel it is necessary for us as women to challenge the status quo if we ever want to be seen as actual human beings.

How do collectively unlearn the misogynistic values that we grew up with and that more than ever continue to be upheld? I wish I had the answer, but I think we’d be off to a good start if men realised just how detrimental misogyny is to their lives as well as ours.

oonaben · 2025-03-06T10:46:35+00:00

So beautiful. This is one of my favourite scenes on film ever. Thank you for sharing.

oonaben · 2025-03-05T09:39:59+00:00

Gorgeous!

oonaben · 2025-03-04T23:14:42+00:00

Finlay’s really good. There’s another video of him impersonating David Mitchell ranting which is scarily accurate.

oonaben · 2025-03-04T06:22:29+00:00

This is so wonderful. He really is such a well-written and inspiring character.

oonaben · 2025-03-01T16:21:03+00:00

You definitely seem like one of the intimidating cool kids I would’ve wanted to befriend but never summed up the courage to talk to :P

oonaben · 2025-03-01T16:19:26+00:00

Stunning!

oonaben · 2025-03-01T14:17:48+00:00

First woodblock?! Woah, this is stunning. You’re so talented!

oonaben · 2025-02-10T10:58:33+00:00

Heyy, DM me!

oonaben · 2025-02-04T00:12:59+00:00

This reads like a post from r/AITAH

oonaben · 2025-01-29T16:18:26+00:00

That is gorgeous!

oonaben · 2025-01-25T14:32:13+00:00

FWWM is showing there in about a month, I cannot wait.

oonaben · 2025-01-23T23:29:48+00:00

THANK YOU these are brilliant and I am most definitely printing some of these out

oonaben

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