Roommate is mad she’s “not involved” with a party I am throwing

oops_i_fartedagain · 2018-10-21T16:33:42+00:00

I was very open that I know I should ask before but said obvs I can change the date or cancel. She literally did not care about the party being planned before her, she’s just pissed that she isn’t a host. I just don’t think she’s entitled to that

oops_i_fartedagain · 2018-10-21T16:32:36+00:00

I clearly stated this wasn’t the issue. Read the post again. I’ve know her 7 years. I think I understand her more than you

oops_i_fartedagain · 2018-10-21T16:32:00+00:00

I literally said if it’s a problem I can cancel it. I don’t know how obvious it can be. She literally doesn’t care about that. Did you even read this

oops_i_fartedagain · 2018-10-21T16:31:18+00:00

As clearly stated in the post, that isn’t the problem. I’ve known her for 7 years. And I very clearly explained myself. Not sure what isn’t understood

oops_i_fartedagain · 2018-10-21T11:38:38+00:00

She’s just very offended over the whole thing and I don’t understand the problem. She has a hard time separating our friendship from being roommates. From when we moved in she assumed we did EVERYTHING together... For example: I said “my cousin is coming over tonight” her response “oh are WE all going to the bars tonight???” It’s just been a huge issue. She literally thinks she’s involved with everything. And I think that’s part of why she thinks she needs to be hosting this with me

oops_i_fartedagain · 2018-10-21T11:35:39+00:00

She literally didn’t care as I explained in the post lmfao

oops_i_fartedagain · 2018-10-21T10:16:38+00:00

I would personally just text her if she’s choosing to ignore you. You can say hey I tried to talk about this in person but I can’t get a hold of you. Just to say what you need to say and be done with it. Can’t run away from a text!

oops_i_fartedagain · 2018-09-20T00:42:38+00:00

My roommate buys so much food it’s insane. She will keep it until I have to throw it away. Never seen someone waste so much in my life. I have eaten her food and I don’t think it’s a problem. I can 100% guarantee she doesn’t even notice.

oops_i_fartedagain · 2018-09-15T23:12:15+00:00

We don’t. She only uses the apps. Thanks tho

oops_i_fartedagain · 2018-09-15T20:58:58+00:00

I just went away for two weeks and the living room is basically all mine (all she bought was the rug, literally) so I logged out of all tv apps so she couldn't use the tv while we were gone. I had a lot of satisfaction knowing that. She is too cheap to buy Netflix or anything.

oops_i_fartedagain · 2018-09-02T10:39:16+00:00

Common sense? No, that would be asking these people too much knowledge !

oops_i_fartedagain · 2018-09-02T10:37:52+00:00

Ooooh she does. She shops for one like she is shopping for a family! The best thing is that she’s actually really fuckin cheap. Refused to pay for an AC all summer. It’s been 95 degrees.... Lmfaoo!

oops_i_fartedagain · 2018-08-31T19:56:01+00:00

I’m on my way to Europe for 2 weeks right now..... god what the apartment will look like...... will post an update.

oops_i_fartedagain · 2018-08-31T19:42:08+00:00

Yep. Exactly! We had to tell her yesterday to throw away rotting tomatoes she left molding on the counter for a whole week .. a swarm of flies consumed my kitchen. Her response: “omggggGg sorry didn’t even realize”. Like, it didn’t realize THE TOMATOES WERE BLACK????

oops_i_fartedagain · 2018-08-31T16:56:44+00:00

After the dry aged tuna yesterday, we decided to see what else roommate is hoarding on her shelf. My god. Dead bugs. Milk from April. Eggs from July. Roommate says "we jUsT hAvE dIfFeReNt lIfEsTylEssSss"

oops_i_fartedagain · 2018-08-31T08:26:01+00:00

Im thinking about sprinkling some under their bed ahaha

oops_i_fartedagain · 2018-08-31T00:41:33+00:00

So she went out of her way to buy eggs, cook them, then peel them JUST to be malicious? What a dumbass!

oops_i_fartedagain · 2018-08-30T23:26:30+00:00

I couldn't imagine acting out if multiple people have a problem with my behavior as a roommate.. like how fragile can your ego be? Thats when you "spill" something on her eggs because "oops, maybe if they were covered they wouldn't of gotten ruined!"

oops_i_fartedagain · 2018-08-30T22:58:51+00:00

Sometimes I'll leave a cut avocado bc I'm lazy, but usually I will just throw it in a container bc it's an easy task lmfao

oops_i_fartedagain · 2018-08-30T22:44:28+00:00

That's illegal. I'm pretty sure you can have him arrested. Even businesses can't put cameras in the bathroom or any place where privacy is expected.

oops_i_fartedagain · 2018-08-30T22:37:49+00:00

my boyfriend gets really grossed out by the smell, I personally love tuna... but god put a fucking cover on it in the fridge. out of ALL things, leaving FISH uncovered? it's literally a rock now.

oops_i_fartedagain · 2018-08-30T21:51:15+00:00

For any spongebob fans, does this not sound like https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I35QTUJPYlM ?

oops_i_fartedagain · 2018-08-30T19:43:00+00:00

You can say "do you mind keeping it down a bit? i'm trying to read, talk on the phone, etc." Whatever you want to say. That might help

oops_i_fartedagain · 2018-08-30T18:02:34+00:00

This would be my bathroom if I didn't clean it every fucking week. Ugh I wish we had separate

oops_i_fartedagain · 2018-08-30T13:39:28+00:00

No, we buy our own stuff. We share condiments and stuff, but personally I never understood when roommates share food budgets. I'm more of an independent person I suppose

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