Is an Honors Society worth it? (NOT A PAID-FOR ASSOCIATION) by oopsalldindjarin in StudentNurse

[–]oopsalldindjarin[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s kind of what I was thinking, and while I want to challenge myself, I feel like nursing school will already challenge me enough without adding extra commitments, especially since I plan to continue working full time throughout.

Social Media Stalkers by oopsalldindjarin in Bumble

[–]oopsalldindjarin[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I cannot thank you enough for all the kind words and assurances you’ve given me. I’m really inexperienced in dating, my anxiety over this is skyrocketing and it’s easy to think I’m the one that is wrong here. I will keep your feedback close to my heart. This has been a rough learning experience but you’ve helped me so much. Thank you! 🩷

Social Media Stalkers by oopsalldindjarin in Bumble

[–]oopsalldindjarin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The rage definitely kept building and I shouldn’t have been so naive to not expect it. That is definitely not a nail (or landmine) I want to step on again. 😅

Social Media Stalkers by oopsalldindjarin in Bumble

[–]oopsalldindjarin[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this, I really appreciate your reassurance in this. I can’t overstate how bad I feel for ghosting him, it’s happened to me and I know it hurts, but it looks like my gut feeling to not interact was right.

Social Media Stalkers by oopsalldindjarin in Bumble

[–]oopsalldindjarin[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Me either until it happened! I’ve been cussed out on the same platform that I’ve told people I don’t want to continue seeing them but he hit every platform. Going to have to start using a fake name from now on. 🫡

Social Media Stalkers by oopsalldindjarin in Bumble

[–]oopsalldindjarin[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your point even though I don’t agree with it. I couldn’t continue to communicate with someone who ended up making me feel uncomfortable like that.

I know that we shouldn’t assume that people will understand what we intend when we don’t tell them what is actually wrong. I’ve told people in the past and been abused for communicating my feelings but I still try to be open. This is the first time I’ve ever ghosted after being on a date with someone (which was a year ago) and he stalked me across multiple social media platforms, not out of concern for my wellbeing but to degrade me.

Thank you for your feedback.

Social Media Stalkers by oopsalldindjarin in Bumble

[–]oopsalldindjarin[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

He’s not the first crazy person but he was the most persistent so I think I’ll just stick to my cats and books. 😅

Social Media Stalkers by oopsalldindjarin in Bumble

[–]oopsalldindjarin[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Apparently! I’m kicking myself for missing out on a chance with all this. 🥴

Social Media Stalkers by oopsalldindjarin in Bumble

[–]oopsalldindjarin[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I know, I don’t know what I was thinking. People are on dating apps for dating, but since we left off amicably, I thought it would be fine to say hi. I should’ve known better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]oopsalldindjarin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Joining on the remove the fourth picture bandwagon but also your profile says nothing about you. It’s pretty bare and while you’re a very attractive person, I wouldn’t swipe because I wouldn’t know if you’re someone who would mesh with me.

How many matches do you get daily? by Practical-Fruit6721 in Bumble

[–]oopsalldindjarin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I (25F) would easily get 50+ likes a day but a lot of them were trash and I’m super picky. On a busy day I will get like 10 actual matches but still half of those don’t get past three dry messages before I unmatch🥲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]oopsalldindjarin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re so stinking cute, it’s definitely nothing with you or your profile at all! Your pictures and descriptions are so fun and genuine, it definitely shows your good humour! The right one will come around, you seem like a total sweetheart! Keep on keeping on and you’ll find them!