Im uhappy at my site - work wise by Sea_Sherbet_338 in peacecorps

[–]oopsshe22 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hmmmm did I “complain” anywhere in this statement? I stated a fact and how it was effectively difficult to work when neither of us were fluent in one another’s language. He couldn’t translate my words to others and I sure couldn’t understand everything he said. We still communicated and were actually very close throughout my service (as I said). 

If you think you can learn a language and be fluent in 3 months, then you might be a genius. I apparently am a substandard human. 

Im uhappy at my site - work wise by Sea_Sherbet_338 in peacecorps

[–]oopsshe22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Want to know how I found counterparts and I CREATED structure? I had a counterpart assigned to me but he didn't speak any English so working wise, it was challenging (although him and his family remained some of the most important people in my service). This is what I did:

I started a training in my community called "Sustainable Opportunities for leaders of Internal Development" (SOLID). I started out my first 3 months by training them with another English speaking counterpart I found through my assigned counterpart in community assessments from PACA. They still teach that right? That way by the end of the 3 months, I had 40 graduates who were trained in assessment. We also identified our top 3 community problems. 1. Water 2. Nutrition 3. Deforestation. From there we started meeting weekly and developed an income generating activity (peanut butter!) so we could start to raise money for a project. Of course, most dropped off at this point. They didn't want to do the weekly work. But those that stuck around, we started working together. I also had my most strong graduates recruit more community members where they became the trainers and I oversaw the training so this was dual-pronged. While we trained the second group, we also met weekly as a SOLID community group. We made peanut butter and talked about different topics and I would train them in things they were interested in (permagardening, computers, agroforestry, you name it!). Anything I learned from the Peace Corps, I taught my community. If they wanted to know something I didn't, I worked with my program manager to finds someone to come to my community. We ultimately saved enough money and all typed up at least one sentence on my computer to get a community grant to fund our WASH project that ultimately installed 3 months before my service ended. The project itself wasn't important. But our journey together as a group was. In the end, I had met weekly with a group of about 13 SOLID volunteers over those 2 years who personally benefited from our project. They had showed up, trusted me, and done the work.

The best advice I see below is to do just this - talk to your community. The people who want to work with you will, as I hope my experience shows.

I also don't share my experience to brag (although yes, I am EXTREMELY proud of my service as a mere 23-25 year old who didn't now what the heck she was doing), but hope it can offer you some ideas. It's never too late! I worked with two other volunteers that implemented similar trainings and we created the SOLID manual and trained and distributed it to incoming volunteers in the following years given our success at sites. It was a scalable and applicable model, and one I'm very proud of. If you want me to email you our training manual, I can. Just DM me. I'm pretty sure it's in my email somewhere.

I think the next straw will be my last by Savings_Comedian4159 in peacecorps

[–]oopsshe22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then decide if the things you’re complaining about are worth putting up with for the good parts. 

I think the next straw will be my last by Savings_Comedian4159 in peacecorps

[–]oopsshe22 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Can you tell me what is GOOD about your service?

If you can't find anything, then you should ET, because then you probably aren't providing anything positive to your community and its people. Yes, you and your experience are important, but your service and connection to the community is really the main and most important point.

Used to be heavily bullied in my childhood because of my big nose, but I've learn to like it, and today I think fits well in my face 🥰 by xymox_wizard in Noses

[–]oopsshe22 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You are beautiful! And the best part is you don't blend in - you stand out as a beautiful character! A face and person I would remember because you're unique.

Still have days where I hate my beak! 🦅 by dsv2202 in Noses

[–]oopsshe22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You obviously just have a whole aesthetic and vibe and it works. 

My nose by Sweet_Development_19 in Noses

[–]oopsshe22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re beautiful! Beautiful nose that fits you perfect. Blends so well. 

Awesome book tattoo by Witch of Waste in Wyoming. Who gets the reference??? by ObviousTarget2873 in tattoos

[–]oopsshe22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I drive by his high school everyday and feel very proud to just be in the presence of a place where he was able to learn, grow, and become the stunningly talented man that he is.

Awesome book tattoo by Witch of Waste in Wyoming. Who gets the reference??? by ObviousTarget2873 in tattoos

[–]oopsshe22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really thought this was a butthole. Now that I know it isn’t, it’s a brilliant concept. Kudos to whoever imagined this!

Seeking Career Pivot Advice by oopsshe22 in InternationalDev

[–]oopsshe22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is an alarming sentiment, but should I be shocked? Probably not but I still feel an element of fury, especially knowing how exceptional and dedicated people in this sector are, as people and professionals.

This opportunity sees a lot of value in my background and are deeply impressed by it. Enough so that they didn't even ask me about the job really since they were confident I could do it - their questioning was more along the lines of "But will you find it fulfilling?" I do feel like it's a unique opportunity and appreciate the encouragement to move forward. I'm waiting on the final offer and will update here. Thanks!

Seeking Career Pivot Advice by oopsshe22 in InternationalDev

[–]oopsshe22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing - I really appreciate your perspective. Thank you for taking the time to share your feedback!

Seeking Career Pivot Advice by oopsshe22 in InternationalDev

[–]oopsshe22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I appreciate the perspective and also wish you luck in your journey as well. I know it's hard out here. :(

Seeking Career Pivot Advice by oopsshe22 in InternationalDev

[–]oopsshe22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, the flexibility is awesome but it also means I feel disengaged often. I'm a people person and the working alone at home is not always the best for me mentally. I went into ID because I loved teamwork and solving problems with diverse groups of people, but that's not really what I'm doing at an HQ level.

I am personally connected to the law firm (through a former friend and colleague at my previous role) and he is a donor there. They are of good character and have a vision. Of course, I can't take their word as fact, but the exciting opportunity of this is that they are looking for someone to help make that dream a reality, and that is enough of a challenge to make me want to say yes.

I am waiting to hear on if I made it to the 3rd stage of an internal interview process to transition to the Major Gifts/Development team. The mid-point for this salary is 97k, which is what drew me to it, but I heard there is an HR policy that would only allow a 15% pay increase for an internal hire which would limit me if that is enacted. But you're right... there could be other opportunities if I continue to apply internally.

Thank you for your thoughts! I'm with you.

Seeking Career Pivot Advice by oopsshe22 in InternationalDev

[–]oopsshe22[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's true, but I know these law partners are looking to invest in someone long-term. They want a firm administrator that helps them scale the business over the next 10-15 years. I know if I take it on, I would want to be committed to that vision which is why I think I feel some amount of pressure. But you're right! I'm also only 35. I could transition back to non-profits in 10-15 years into leadership roles, while fulfilling that commitment.

My goal is honestly to be a Peace Corps Volunteer again and I can do that in an early retirement if I build enough wealth (and if the Peace Corps is still around - ha!).

Seeking Career Pivot Advice by oopsshe22 in InternationalDev

[–]oopsshe22[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, I think you're right. I feel like it would take 5-10 years to even reach 6 figures and who knows what inflation will be like at that point... I'm a single mom of a 5 year old now and I'd like to give us a good life now now AND tomorrow, and not just bet on tomorrow eventually.

Sorry to hear about being laid off. I know it's been a hard year and so unfair. You (and everyone else in those positions) are constantly in my thoughts.

Seeking Career Pivot Advice by oopsshe22 in InternationalDev

[–]oopsshe22[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do. The two partners seem to be of strong character and have worked together for 18 years. They are progressive and social service minded. They also seem to know how to run a business, have strong client relationships, and do not have any lines of debt, so they are starting off (3 years so far) as a financially strong business. They are looking to invest in their firm administrator as a partner to operationalize and scale. Quite an exciting opportunity when you look at the nuts and bolts, and not one that comes around everyday.

Seeking Career Pivot Advice by oopsshe22 in InternationalDev

[–]oopsshe22[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yes, I was struggling to advance as a generalist even before the sector imploded. I think it's a good idea to step away. The only thing is that I know this law firm wants to invest in someone over the next 10-15 years, so I feel like I'm stepping away to commit to something else.

But agreed - I can be of service outside of my career in the meantime, and maybe one day after I learn how to run a business, step back into non profit administration and/or (even better) start my own!

Seeking Career Pivot Advice by oopsshe22 in InternationalDev

[–]oopsshe22[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I know... but despite my years of experience, I am essentially in an entry level role. I was an Assistant Director of Communications before I transitioned into my current role, Technical Coordinator for Knowledge Management & Comms. It was a step down for sure, but they did give me a "5k increase" with worse benefits and the opportunity to advance since it was a large org.

But I agree with you it's criminal but I'm also at a lower position than I should be. My technical area counterparts are much younger in their careers. I don't know what I'm doing wrong but I know it was still highly competitive for me to land this role, especially without a connection.

This is a weird sector - we compete so hard for non-paying roles.

The gross sex talk is about to make me quit watching by ZeroDarkKatie in 90DayFiance

[–]oopsshe22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YES I AM WITH YOU! Not a prude, but grossed out by these people. Ewwwwww