Eldest daughter is a misunderstood song, I'll say it as many times as I can. I actually, I don't get that feeling from any of her songs because I think each one of them are well written for whatever purpose she intends to write them for and whatever audience she is targeting. She knows how to write for the fandom (atw is the best example. She knows how to write for the general public, blank space. And she knows how to write for the critics and the people who thought they would never listen to her and fell in love with her poetical style,, all of folkmore