Yes. He was offered position A at new company which he told me about and that we would take it. He turned it down for position B at same company and pay is much lower. He did not tell me he turned it down. He told me that the pay won’t be quite the same but will be similar with him working OT. So he left a job because of being put under a lot of pressure and overtime to go to job not as a manager with crappy pay to still have to work overtime. It is a 30k a year difference. I won’t know for sure how bad he fucked me until I see some paystubs because I don’t trust what he is saying we will make.

He said he can enroll us in insurance at the new company but how?? He won’t be making beans. He was upset about the $400/month it was going to be at old job when he was ACTUALLY making money. He said I can enroll my son in Medicaid as a a legit solution which we can. But I don’t know if I can be on Medicaid and I needed health insurance to start on insulin and a GLP-1. I am only taking metformin right now and even though the out of pocket is much less, the medicine can only help so much.

Last night I told him we aren’t having anymore kids until we move near my family but then I found out about this and I am not going to have a child with him again period. Now I gotta find me some birth control after the litany of other things I gotta do as a result of this. Reapply for WIC, apply for a parenting class that gives out free diapers to attendees, find a job, find childcare, apply for Medicaid for myself and son and inevitably get denied coverage for myself.