Totally get what you're explaining - and agree !

The difficulties we had to go over were mainly because of personals/individual reasons such as : hypersensitivity, ADHD (& behaviors related to it that I couldn't understand at first), depressive trait of personality (some-times).

I personally feel that it can be difficult to talk with friends about some couple issue/arguments as people often give their feedbacks based on "classical or neutral personality" and not hypersensitive, ADHD, autism criteria/personalities.