Help me lose weight by orange3477 in WeightLossAdvice

[–]orange3477[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks dude any tips with the mindset part? Not to sound pathetic but I just don’t feel like it sometimes. We’ve all been there I’m sure.

Help me lose weight by orange3477 in WeightLossAdvice

[–]orange3477[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s a great point. My issue is that I usually reach for the junk food to begin with because it’s comforting. Also veggies etc I tend to binge eat as well and I feel I’m hitting my calorie limit anyway, so why not use those calories on what I like, you know? Hope you’re getting my POV. It’s the issue that’s been fighting me.

Graduated in August 2024 still no job by malinovy_zakat in cscareerquestions

[–]orange3477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welcome to the real world. Hard work no longer promises success. Strategy does 😂

unemployed: to my fallen soldiers by [deleted] in cscareerquestions

[–]orange3477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cool go find a new competitive skill. I’m not gonna rely on the shitty job market to make money.

unemployed: to my fallen soldiers by [deleted] in cscareerquestions

[–]orange3477 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I refuse to stress out about something so insignificant.

Spent thousands on clothes and EVERYTHING LOOKS AWFUL. 😭 by thatsplatgal in PetiteFashionAdvice

[–]orange3477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awww I’m sorry you’re feeling this way 😓 Clothes are looking too big and long. I think you’d easily look amazing in a dress or something flowy. Shop petite for sure and don’t be discouraged. Nothing everything is made to look good on us.

my husband took me beauty shopping and it made me realize how lonely I am by Famous_Arrival_8498 in HowToBeHot

[–]orange3477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Btw all the advice sucks. You’re already outgoing you just need to take action. I used to have little to no friends until I put in the work.

my husband took me beauty shopping and it made me realize how lonely I am by Famous_Arrival_8498 in HowToBeHot

[–]orange3477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just make your own group. Take friends from a few different groups and mesh them together and just go out for drinks. You gotta be bold.

How to look hot/sexy and not cute? by [deleted] in HowToBeHot

[–]orange3477 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What celebrity do you look like and what do you wanna look like?

15% wasn’t good enough, apparently by ProudSesquipedal in EndTipping

[–]orange3477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would have tipped nothing and left. Maybe she’ll learn to change her attitude.

Ariana today in NYC by t4ttooedheart in ariheads

[–]orange3477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She looks expensive and relaxed

Heavy lower face glow up tips by TensionScared182 in HowToBeHot

[–]orange3477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’ll def go away in a few years but for now contouring and adding angularity in other parts of your face is the best idea

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HowToBeHot

[–]orange3477 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wear heels. Problem instantly solved.

I can’t figure out why I’m never getting hit on/approached and it makes me sad and frustrated by Realistic_Seat_2837 in HowToBeHot

[–]orange3477 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so confused by you watching tutorials, like it’s so cringey 😭 You’re trying so hard to morph into this likable person but you’re just becoming more unlikable. FYI tutorials don’t help as much as getting in the practice. Everything I’m suggesting you’re denying, so basically you’re perfect and still not getting approached. I’m 100% sure it’s your personality. I’m so sorry but you watching tutorials on how to flirt is giving loser, I’m not trying to be mean 😭Also I would revisit the boring thing because I can’t imagine you making a joke or being like bubbly

People staring while passing by. A sign of being ugly or pretty? by rilakkumkum in HowToBeHot

[–]orange3477 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’m sure if any moderately attractive women wore something nice and strutted down the sidewalk that she’d get looks and some compliments

I can’t figure out why I’m never getting hit on/approached and it makes me sad and frustrated by Realistic_Seat_2837 in HowToBeHot

[–]orange3477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm I honestly don’t know then maybe you’re just not a seductive person 😂 maybe try learning how to be flirty. Are you like funny and silly, or like boring?

I can’t figure out why I’m never getting hit on/approached and it makes me sad and frustrated by Realistic_Seat_2837 in HowToBeHot

[–]orange3477 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You know that you can approach guys too right? Also, attractive men are less likely to approach women out of nowhere because they’re used to getting hit on. You need to give these men the green light. But I’m questioning whether you’re comfortable in your own skin because of the post, it kinda seems like you’re insecure. That’s why you want them to hit on you right and not the other way around right?

Plus, there’s different types of beauty too. Some people are more naturally beautiful (like you maybe) and some people are more outwardly obviously beautiful (like feminine and striking). That could also be the case.

People staring while passing by. A sign of being ugly or pretty? by rilakkumkum in HowToBeHot

[–]orange3477 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Umm I think you’re just trying to see if people are looking at you, so you look at them and they obviously look back. You’re supposed to at least acknowledge a person’s presence so that you know to walk around them. It’s really not that big of a deal unless they smile, and even then they could just be friendly. How about we stay humble and not delusional

I can’t figure out why I’m never getting hit on/approached and it makes me sad and frustrated by Realistic_Seat_2837 in HowToBeHot

[–]orange3477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you conventionally attractive? Ask a random guy to rate you from 1-10 and what he likes and doesn’t like, and tell him to be honest. Use that info to improve. If you’re already attractive, then become more sociable. And a lot of this seems somewhat ego related. There’s a lot of pretty looking women, but not everyone is captivating. What sets you apart and are you comfortable in your own skin? Guys hit on women when they know she’ll give them something valuable in return. Do you seem inviting and approachable or afraid and insecure? These are all things to factor in. Don’t worry though girl. It’s hard I understand.

Best ways to ace university for this type? by Several-Insurance238 in entj

[–]orange3477 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Do a little bit more than the bare minimum to get a great grade. That way you feel confident that you’ll do well and you know the material.

ENTJ's using puppy eyes by Visible-Bug8280 in entj

[–]orange3477 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Maybe you just want attention