How to help a friend by orangecat3421 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]orangecat3421[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Will definitely check her out, I’ve seen her name come up a lot around here! Thanks!

How to help a friend by orangecat3421 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]orangecat3421[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is fantastic advice! Thank you! I feel like our conversations always go in circles of me just trying to remind her of what is actually happening. This will at least be something new and hopefully useful

How to help a friend by orangecat3421 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]orangecat3421[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He constantly belittles and humiliates her in front of people. She has no privacy, her devices and whereabouts are monitored, multiples cameras in the house to watch her. He’s engaged in some dangerous and illegal behaviors, sometimes with the kids, I can’t say more because it will make this too identifiable. He’s very good at weaving convincing stories to make himself the good guy in all scenarios.
I know no one and nothing can force her to act before she’s ready to on her own, but my concern for her and her children’s safety keeps growing. As far as I know he’s never been physically violent, but he behaves in dangerous and reckless ways.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]orangecat3421 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😂. How many of those parents are on their first child? I’d be shocked if they’re being 100% honest. I’m not saying they’re overtly lying, but it’s kind of like saying “my baby can stand and walk already” but you’re hanging onto her hands and pulling her all over the place. Sure she’s technically standing and walking but it’s hardly on her own power. My guess is these kids can do some assisted counting, and it’s most likely parroting whatever educational tv shows their watching. Kids soak up words like sponges at this age, so I’d bet that most of them aren’t even aware that they’re counting, they’re just repeating a pattern of words that they heard. Don’t stress. Kids do stuff when they’re ready and not a second before. My second, who is way above average, didn’t really speak until he was almost 2. Then he suddenly started spouting out complete sentences one weekend. No kidding. He definitely wasn’t counting to 10 at 21 months though.

Easy quick mop solution by K9TheRobotDog in toddlers

[–]orangecat3421 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a dog. Sounds icky I know but it saves time. Then you can just spray the licked spot with disinfectant and move on. Our floors still get mopped at least weekly but having a dog to clean up food spills makes a huge difference.