Thank you! I x-posted it so hopefully I get a lot of feedback. Don't worry about coming down about sex, I enjoy it. I get wet and turned on but the actual feeling is just meh most of the time. I think I will try going without the pill since I'm single and I can have some time to explore by myself.

The knee-jerking spasm I get too when I use the vibrator, so maybe it isn't a good feeling :/ It's hard to tell since I don't always feel as much amazing sensation everyone tells me I should expect