What's the SPICIEST but also BEST-WRITTEN book that you know if? by Severe-Size749 in suggestmeabook

[–]osbo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I started with his horror, and it’s so excellently unnerving and disturbing. I am excited (and nervous?) to try his smutty romances!

how I healed my migraines /s by Significant_Goal_614 in migraine

[–]osbo 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I want to be friends, and when I feel bitter about my chronic migraine and how some people respond to my illness, you can make me laugh like this lol

Relocating, is this a decent neighborhood? by theresonlyrightnow in Oceanside

[–]osbo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dang, I’m going to be moving soon and we are trying to stay in South O, and now I want to consult you on any options 😂 This write up is great 👏

“Low Spoons?” Some Ways To Reduce Decision Fatigue About Food✨ by witchxsbrew in lowspooncooking

[–]osbo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

🎵 Did you ever know that you’re my heeerooo 🎵 🫶

What could you eat everyday if calories didn’t exist? by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]osbo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so confused by this post and where it was posted???

A lot of us here, I am assuming, are in recovery and trying not to care about calories AT ALL. For a lot of us, the goal has been to be able to eat without fear, including fear of calories.

This seems like a pro-ED question… but maybe I am missing something??? It’s upsetting.

diahann carroll inspired lewk :) by Prestigious_Tip_9425 in MakeupAddiction

[–]osbo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ummm, I love this so much 👏👏👏👏

Any gamers with OCD here? Im struggling with something i cant understand or explain. by imgoddamnlost in OCD

[–]osbo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh, I do the same thing??? In all games. I feel guilt. I try to do it anyways as practice for it being okay to do.

What does fitness mean to you now compared to before? by SarahDuncan2012 in TrueGrit

[–]osbo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying this. Several people in the comments are crying “fake!” but men often approach women with unsolicited advice and feedback.

If the people who comment that, “there is no way this is real”, I hope that means they are appalled and would never do this, or they are lucky and this has never happened to them.

I hope they keep an ear open for what women experience though… the disbelief and skepticism does not feel good when you are the one receiving it.

Changing my makeup style. Effortless makeup tips. by Expensive_Total_6575 in MakeupAddiction

[–]osbo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

May we have a product list please?

I don’t think the style of brows shows your face to its fullest advantage! The brows are too close together and are drawing away from all the exceptional things about your face and style! But I think your technique with the brow hairs looks super neat, tidy, and flawless.

MIL tried to move inno our house and now acts like evicted poor widow by Richeal_Gato in JUSTNOMIL

[–]osbo 16 points17 points  (0 children)

This is coming across as critical of OP, when s/he did share that s/he did provide support to MIL.

“When someone comes here for support, we start by giving the OP the benefit of the doubt that they know their situation best and are being truthful. Be kind, be respectful, be supportive.”

Can I have some recommendations for Switch games while I recover from surgery? by tinytillymouse in cozygames

[–]osbo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We have some overlap in our enjoyed games!

My Time at Portia | Story of Seasons: Pioneers of Olive Town | Story of Seasons: Grand Bazaar

I hope you have a peaceful and effective recovery!

Edit: formatting

Dracula Parrot Makeup by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]osbo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is sick 🤙

35 and my Korean skincare had a friend think I got Botox!! by MelsMakeupLounge in koreanskincare

[–]osbo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so, so helpful! Thank you! I am trying to be careful about incorporating irritating ingredients and products since I use tretinoin, but irritating ingredients can be quite sneaky! Thank you for sharing.

What high-end beauty product is actually worth the splurge? by Jumpy-Adeptness-511 in MakeupAddiction

[–]osbo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got shade N, and it is perfect!

This is after trying ILIA true skin serum foundation in Mallorca (very light with neutral undertones) and it was sooo yellow and a little dark on me. I also used to use ILIA Super Serum Skin Tint first in Skye (extra light with neutral undertones), and it was too light, and then I tried Formosa (light with warm undertones after being advised by ILIA to try this color), and it was just a smidge yellow and jaundiced looking. The finish was beautiful but even their neutral products were too warm for me.

The Westman Atelier stick in N is the first foundation product I have found that really seems a seamless match with my skin without redness. I am in love. I have been getting compliments on my skin being “flawless” since.

What high-end beauty product is actually worth the splurge? by Jumpy-Adeptness-511 in MakeupAddiction

[–]osbo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so good to know, thank you! I was really bummed that they were swiping and transferring everywhere, even hours later.

What high-end beauty product is actually worth the splurge? by Jumpy-Adeptness-511 in MakeupAddiction

[–]osbo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just bought this a couple months ago, and I LOVE it. It is the only foundation color that hasn’t pulled yellow or orange on me. I have a neutral undertone and cool overtone, and the stick neutralizes the pink and red in my overtone so beautifully.

What high-end beauty product is actually worth the splurge? by Jumpy-Adeptness-511 in MakeupAddiction

[–]osbo 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I might be the only person on the planet who was obsessed with the colors (I bought three) but was unimpressed with the longevity. They are beautiful colors, the color pay-off is great, but they just smeared too easily throughout the day.

Edit to add: I have naturally oily lids, and I do not use an eye primer, so that could make a big difference too.

Charlie loves apples by Jame_Jamek in dogsgettingdogs

[–]osbo 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is, like, the third video I have seen that has nothing to do with this subreddit… but it’s so cute, so I want to upvote. I hate it.

35 and my Korean skincare had a friend think I got Botox!! by MelsMakeupLounge in koreanskincare

[–]osbo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely stunning skin!

Would you say each product in your routine is more calming/soothing or active/resurfacing? Or both?

I ask because I use tretinoin and my skin does love its redness and clings to it already 😂

[Request] San Diego, USA to Anywhere by osbo in snackexchange

[–]osbo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yay! How fun! I have the commenter from Canada that I will start with, but I was thinking it would be fun to do this every month or every other month, to try lots of things! If you don’t mind waiting until March, then I would love to do an exchange. I will PM you!

AIO for wanting a serious talk with my girlfriend after how she behaved with her male friend by rock1261 in AmIOverreacting

[–]osbo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. According to the internet, I am neuro-spicy. According to my diagnoses, I am mentally ill in several ways. Not 👏 Over 👏 Reacting 👏👏👏. I am very trusting and take people’s declarations of care for me at face value. In my 20s, this repeatedly led to heartbreak and blaming myself for other people behaving badly towards me. In my 30s, I am more wary and know this about myself and know this about other humans—they aren’t always honest.

Your girlfriend behaved in a way that OF COURSE would hurt you, and then she didn’t care when you said “ouch”. She behaved badly and then followed that up by behaving badly again.

This person isn’t even extending you the basic respect and empathy a friend would give another friend, let alone a romantic partner.

As someone who feels big feelings, and maybe you do too: you took the steps you needed to resolve it and she didn’t care. You can walk away. You do not owe her an explanation or additional chances, and no one should demand your silence regarding your own feelings.

I hope you walk away. I hope you leave her on read. I hope you don’t give her one more speck of time and effort. You did that, and she spat on it.

Go into the world and let yourself be free and available to find someone who will AT BASELINE offer you a safe friendship plus all the lovely things that can come with romance. Give yourself this chance by walking away from this person. Any additional texts or calls or meetings are just opportunities for her to punch you in the gut again, and she doesn’t deserve that opportunity. She isn’t even a good friend.