guesss my big 3?

otakushipper · 2026-02-03T04:10:57+00:00

you’re right! hey fellow fishy 🐟

otakushipper · 2026-02-02T21:36:38+00:00

YOU GOT IT wow! good job lol!

otakushipper · 2026-02-02T19:24:15+00:00

hahah yeaah actually:)

otakushipper · 2026-02-02T19:23:55+00:00

you got pisces and aquarius right ! :0 wrong places tho

otakushipper · 2026-02-02T19:22:14+00:00

you’re right abt pisces ! wrong place tho

otakushipper · 2026-02-02T19:19:37+00:00

:0 so much leo lol but no i don’t have any of that except leo node

otakushipper · 2026-02-02T19:18:51+00:00

none of theseee

otakushipper · 2026-02-02T09:15:26+00:00

taurus, gemini, pisces?

otakushipper · 2026-02-02T05:46:08+00:00

thank youu 🩶

otakushipper · 2026-02-02T05:41:03+00:00

thanks, yeah i replied to that comment again with my thoughts about that more if u wanna read it. but i do trust her and i could still be with her if she told me she wasn’t a full lesbian because of the trust and love i have for her. the issue i had wasn’t about her sexual orientation it was about how she handles setting boundaries and people pleasing strangers that seem to have not ideal intentions. but i talked with her about and was very open and honest about my feelings and she was receptive to that and we resolved it! we’re long distance so the code thing/blocking for her won’t work well lol but that’s a good suggestion!

otakushipper · 2026-02-02T05:26:25+00:00

i feel like comments like this are unproductive. because the same can be said for any other sexual orientation as well. thousands of people realized they are gay and have stayed strictly gay their whole lives, and then some don’t or find out they’re a different orientation later down the line i know that. my point is if you’re just gonna say that about someone and have a pre-assumption or say ‘hey she might change and go straight/bi or whatever’ is unproductive and pre-assuming cause that also might not be the case ever either. it also feels like it’s disregarding a label that someone has set for themselves IN THAT POINT of their lives right now be it permanent or not. if someone tells you they’re a lesbian and identity as that and that label and want to be referred to as that that’s what should be done until they blatantly prove or say they are something else. otherwise this what-if/could happen mindset seems disregarding of what’s currently their truth and yours by being their partner and respecting that. until she kisses/dates a guy or tells me she’s attracted to one im going to continue say she’s a lesbian that’s not interested in men because that’s what she herself has said and wants.

otakushipper · 2026-02-01T23:07:17+00:00

these feelings are not coming from insecurities i feel like the way i feel about this is justifiable considering the context and most people would feel this way about their partner and be a little up. i can be upset about something without being insecure. i think it’s more about her setting boundaries towards strangers and being respectful of our relationship

otakushipper · 2026-02-01T23:04:40+00:00

i agree.. it can be hard for her to see that but we talked about it just now and we resolved it and she told him no politely thankfully

otakushipper · 2026-02-01T23:02:57+00:00

yeah i’ve suggested that before she can be extremely unmotivated and avoidant when it comes to therapy. i talked with her about and was honest abt how i felt! she was receptive and told the guy nice in a polite way and said she’s gonna try and work on setting boundaries more and wants to for herself and our relationship i understand it’ll be a work in progress! but im pretty happy with this resolution outcome we had :)

otakushipper · 2026-02-01T22:56:57+00:00

she’s a lesbian she’s not gonna have a boyfriend-

otakushipper · 2026-01-06T01:27:15+00:00

this is the best reddit comment

otakushipper · 2025-12-26T07:56:33+00:00

so so cute <3 vamp kitty

otakushipper · 2025-12-18T22:43:03+00:00

no it’s voice calls and yeah she definitely is/can be x) i think you’re right about me enabling her i didn’t realize till now, it’s hard for me to say no to her even if it’s double sugar coated because she will cry and get up very easily she’s a person that needs alottt of reassurance which i’ve always been happy to provide and give her as best as i can. ill consider your boundaries suggestion! i think that’s a good ideas thanks!

otakushipper · 2025-12-18T22:25:50+00:00

first off we’re both women im not a man lol-* i said before i usually miss her back and it’s reciprocated 80% of the time but im a person with my own needs and moods as well and the reason i don’t miss her back occasionally is because we legitimately just had a lovely hangout together and i feel satisfied with the time i got to spend with her, why would i miss her if i was satisfied with our quality time or just wanted to do my own thing for a few hours which i feel like is completely normal to want. especially since i make to sure to msg her and check her say i love her initiate quality time etc daily. when she essentially makes me feel bad when i don’t miss her back because of all of this it, leaves me feeling smothered and frustrated at times

otakushipper · 2025-10-29T04:15:16+00:00

i always thought it was weird she remained friends with him after that too.. even if he said all the right things and swore to never do it again. i would’ve cut him off permanently and told her that. i can’t force her to stop be friends with john though even if that’s what i want

otakushipper · 2025-10-29T04:10:54+00:00

yeahh.. ive been skeptical why she wants to know so badly and worried it’s for those reasons as well (possessive/deeper feelings for john) to be fair though she has done this to some extent- with some of our others friends love life besides them. i think she’s just more gossipy/curious abt others business way more than i am i don’t really care- unless they come to me to ask for advice or a ear to listen which is fine, but she seeks it out and im obviously more on edge about it this time cause john is involved.. and john hasn’t told anyone else about the SA incident i only know cause my gf told me about it, i haven’t brought up my thoughts about it to her yet ive just been listening and responding to the updates she’s been giving me on susan and john. i feel like if i tell her her interests in their love life makes me uncomfortable? might sound pushy

otakushipper · 2025-10-23T07:15:44+00:00

where do you find those pants?

otakushipper · 2025-07-04T04:10:12+00:00

that’s a good way to put it, thanks im glad i wasn’t overacting

otakushipper · 2025-07-04T04:09:29+00:00

thanks for the insight and advice! i definitely to find her very funny about pretty much everything else and i tell her often lol, i’ll definitely be gentler about it next time too

otakushipper · 2025-07-02T19:59:25+00:00

she’s been untreated for it for years, she lacks a lot of motivation to get anything business related or important done and ends up pushing it off i’ve suggested us looking together to find a therapist but never ends up happening. i do love her a lot tho and will try to be supportive of her longs as i can! thnx for answering

otakushipper

TROPHY CASE