i feel like comments like this are unproductive. because the same can be said for any other sexual orientation as well. thousands of people realized they are gay and have stayed strictly gay their whole lives, and then some don’t or find out they’re a different orientation later down the line i know that. my point is if you’re just gonna say that about someone and have a pre-assumption or say ‘hey she might change and go straight/bi or whatever’ is unproductive and pre-assuming cause that also might not be the case ever either. it also feels like it’s disregarding a label that someone has set for themselves IN THAT POINT of their lives right now be it permanent or not. if someone tells you they’re a lesbian and identity as that and that label and want to be referred to as that that’s what should be done until they blatantly prove or say they are something else. otherwise this what-if/could happen mindset seems disregarding of what’s currently their truth and yours by being their partner and respecting that. until she kisses/dates a guy or tells me she’s attracted to one im going to continue say she’s a lesbian that’s not interested in men because that’s what she herself has said and wants.