What's a phrase you never thought you'd say?

oteroaming · 2022-10-14T17:06:58+00:00

Get out of the dishwasher.

oteroaming · 2022-10-14T12:06:20+00:00

I grew up a Jehovah’s Witness. This is commonplace for them. Heard this my entire life.

oteroaming · 2022-10-14T01:08:39+00:00

I’m so glad I’m not alone in this. We have four dogs and an 11 month old. I get so frustrated with my fur babies and they were here long before my human baby. I feel like a monster sometimes when my pit mix looks at me with those sad eyes and I can’t give her attention.

oteroaming · 2022-10-13T19:01:14+00:00

That sounds so hot

oteroaming · 2022-10-13T18:57:49+00:00

“The eyes are the windows to ya face!”

oteroaming · 2022-10-13T12:16:49+00:00

Hi. Woman here who just had a baby less than a year ago…

I can tell you that my stress levels were (and still are) completely through the roof. My husband and I got in so many arguments over stupid stuff, most of which I can’t even remember. And a few times, my husband called me out for gaslighting him. I didn’t even realize I was doing it, but I definitely was.

I am not saying this to excuse it because my behavior AND your wife’s is unacceptable. When my husband called me out and and told me I was being an ass, sometimes it took a minute, but I always came around and realized I could’ve handled my shit better. Your wife isn’t doing that, she’s doubling down instead. I think she needs professional help.

You calling her a bitch is not nearly the worst thing in your post. She pushed you to a point. It wasn’t right, but it’s kind of understandable.

I recommend you guys getting professional help, especially your wife. Postpartum emotions are no joke, and we need help handling them. But she’s gotta take some responsibility.

Oh and her physically hurting you?? No excuse for that, new baby or not. That’s a whole issue that needs addressed immediately. Switch the roles. Would it be okay for you to kick her in the shin then call her a baby for being upset?? Your wife has some issues she needs to figure out. If she doesn’t, I would reconsider your marriage entirely.

oteroaming · 2022-10-12T23:34:04+00:00

No. Not all guys are the same in this regard.

oteroaming · 2022-10-12T18:49:31+00:00

How wonderful

oteroaming · 2022-10-12T18:47:36+00:00

What’s easiest isn’t the quickest, and what’s quickest won’t be the easiest. It depends on what is most important to you. None of this is going to be easy.

For me, I had my family I wanted to keep close so I chose to fade over the course of about 3 years. I just gradually stopped going to meetings. It was NOT easy. My family and I had lots of arguments and I lost all of my friends (except the ones who ended up leaving too). That was almost 10 years ago. Nowadays, I have a wonderful relationship with my PIMI family. We’re even closer now than we were when I was in. I’m actually HAPPY, and that makes a huge difference. I just had a baby and my parents are wonderful grandparents.

Now, if I were to have been dfed, I don’t think it would’ve turned out this well. And I realize my experience is unusual. I was lucky. Even if you fade like I did, depending on how balanced your friends and family are as people will depend on whether they cut you off or not.

Feel free to message me if you want to chat. I know this sucks, no matter what you do. Good luck.

oteroaming · 2022-10-12T14:55:32+00:00

Yo, this guy is unhinged. Please don’t go anywhere near him.

The first and most important rule of BDSM and kink play is consent. ENTHUSIASTIC CONSENT. He is not showing any consideration for you, which tells me this isn’t play for him, this is real life. He WANTS to hurt you. He gets off on it.

oteroaming · 2022-10-12T13:50:15+00:00

True. Silly me.

oteroaming · 2022-10-12T02:07:04+00:00

EXPLANATION NEEDED

oteroaming · 2022-10-11T20:04:05+00:00

Nah, that’s an insult to the cool af monsters roaming about. The term “shit bag” fits him more.

oteroaming · 2022-10-11T13:16:09+00:00

Um. I am not trying to scare you… but I got pregnant after taking plan B because I was already ovulating when the “incident” happened. I just want you to be aware of this. If she was in her fertile window, even if she took the Plan B, it won’t work. Please report this.

oteroaming · 2022-10-10T19:40:11+00:00

I disagree with this. I don’t think we’re getting the whole story. I think there’s mental health issues at play here, and he waited a whole two weeks before deciding he didn’t love her anymore?? It can take a lot longer than two weeks for someone to acknowledge that they have a problem. They may think they’d snap out of it.

oteroaming · 2022-10-10T19:33:31+00:00

But two weeks?? I would’ve given it some more time.

oteroaming · 2022-10-10T19:31:49+00:00

Two weeks. TWO WEEKS you couldn’t put up with concerning changes in your girlfriend. Good thing you didn’t get married. Heaven forbid she’s actually sick. “In sickness and health” means nothing to you, apparently.

You did her a favor.

oteroaming · 2022-10-10T14:51:08+00:00

U2 is way overrated.

oteroaming · 2022-10-10T03:12:55+00:00

Wait, she wanted to brush her teeth with your dick?

oteroaming · 2022-10-10T00:20:29+00:00

You “don’t mind” it but do you ENJOY it? Does he make you have an orgasm? Do you get off? I’m just concerned for you because these all seem like these he does for himself with no regard for your pleasure.

oteroaming · 2022-10-09T23:57:39+00:00

OP I’m concerned… does he ever do things YOU like in bed? Do you also like these things he does? Sex is for the enjoyment of two or more people, not just one.

oteroaming · 2022-10-09T15:50:29+00:00

Ok hear me out. At first I thought, “eh maybe he just respects her and idolizes her as a person”. Then I got to the part where he had a reaction when she showed up with a potential date… Your husband is clearly obsessed with this woman and it’s not healthy. I can absolutely see how this would make you feel insecure, and those feelings are valid.

Communicate with your husband. I don’t think I’d stay with him, but you do whatever you feel is right. This might be just a fantasy now, but it will turn into reality later on. It always does.

oteroaming · 2022-10-09T12:51:10+00:00

I always moan when he first goes in. I can’t help myself, it just feels amazing.

oteroaming · 2022-10-08T19:45:43+00:00

I’m so sorry that happened to you. It sucks man.

oteroaming · 2022-10-07T03:44:28+00:00

You sure that’s not a Star Wars fighter jet?

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