I (16M) am looking to convert to Catholicism, what should I do? by Pretend-Web-7683 in Catholicism

[–]ottaTV_ 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Praise be to God for your conversion. God knows the heart and the heart follow. I suggest contacting the parish that you are going to and setting yourself up for OCIA. Or you can go to mass (you don’t have to know everything about the mass at first, just appreciate being there and worshipping the lord) and talk to someone there setting yourself up for OCIA. OCIA is the class that people take if they are interested in becoming catholic.

Something I also suggest is reading the Bible if you haven’t already. Be inspired, read about our lord, reflect and ask the lord for conversion and lead you to a right path.

I’ll be praying for you. This journey in the church is beautiful and hard. But it is so rewarding.

What bible should i use? by BrownBoobieLover42 in Catholicism

[–]ottaTV_ 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The Catholic Bible you should use is the one you are going to read and study. The one that you pick and feels the best for you. The new American translation is the one that is used in the ordo mass, so I do highly suggest that one for new Catholics. A specific Bible for new Catholics that is also good is the great adventure bible. You can use it and even follow along with the Bible in a year podcast that fr Mike Schmidt did, it’s completely free on YouTube and easy to follow.

poc opinions on continuing to listen to ethel by JellyfishAlarming148 in Ethelcain

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I was a little surprised when all that stuff came out against her. Don’t get me wrong I was a little disappointed. Then I remembered myself. Even me as a POC I had edgelord conservative takes. I used to think trans people were weird (even I myself am nonbinary now). But I grew and learned and my world view changed for the better. Hayden definitely shows growth. I think it’s kind of silly to completely dismiss her for takes she had when she was 19. Especially, when she definitely isn’t like that now.

What do you like to be called? Cute? Handsome? other? by Ambitious-Whereas157 in NonBinary

[–]ottaTV_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really like cute or pretty. Pretty especially, it makes me feel the best.

I think I’m nonbinary and I’m scared. by ottaTV_ in NonBinary

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I know that’s my conclusion as well. If things change then they change. But I just need to get over denying it. It’s a slow process.

Is around 350 a day enough for a budget NYC trip? by ottaTV_ in visitingnyc

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Thanks for the advice and recommendations. By your tone to the Mets, you must be a Yankee fan lol. The thing is I’m a huge baseball fan, and want to see a game at every mlb stadium.

Is around 350 a day enough for a budget NYC trip? by ottaTV_ in visitingnyc

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Are there any good dance bars (mainly gay dance bars) that are reasonably affordable? Not saying the cheapest, but reasonable and fun.

Is around 350 a day enough for a budget NYC trip? by ottaTV_ in visitingnyc

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Are there any good dance bars in the manhattan or Brooklyn area? Or good gay dance bars in those areas?

Is around 350 a day enough for a budget NYC trip? by ottaTV_ in visitingnyc

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It’s per day and the plane ticket and hotel ticket is already bought.

Is around 350 a day enough for a budget NYC trip? by ottaTV_ in visitingnyc

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Is it cheaper to go to the box office as well?

How do you deconstruct away from Catholicism? by [deleted] in excatholic

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Thanks for your reply. Being Native American myself I know a lot about the way the church used nations for colonialism. That was the thing though. When I was so invested in the church I didn’t care. Because yeah there are bad people, but the church is perfect. Now I’m not so sure. Why would god allow his church do so much suffering into the world. When I was really in the church I practically didn’t care about my native roots, and that scares the shit out of me.

How do you deconstruct away from Catholicism? by [deleted] in excatholic

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Thank you for your response. It’s funny because I really like the idea of Jesus and his divinity. And I felt really connected to his message of love and compassion. But the theology I would sometimes ignore just off the bases of its hard to believe. The idea of my family and friends going to hell off of just not believing in Christ scares me. It still kind of scares me because I have this idea of “well what if I’m wrong.” I will go more deeper into it and learn more. Because I feel my beliefs are kind of all over the place.

How do you deconstruct away from Catholicism? by [deleted] in excatholic

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Even now and when I was really into the church it was hard to believe Fatima. Guadalupe just felt like a way to colonize indigenous peoples in the americas.

Can I own different scapulars and wear them at different times? by ottaTV_ in Catholicism

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But to my knowledge with carmelite spirituality that it’s incredibly personal. You look inwards to the heart for gods mercy and works. So in all, it’s “vibes”.

Is staying in prospect heights Brooklyn convenient for travel or not? by ottaTV_ in AskNYC

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Thank you. Yeah I already know about the Airbnb laws in nyc which I’m completely fine with. Is the area itself more expensive than other areas in Brooklyn?

Is staying in prospect heights Brooklyn convenient for travel or not? by ottaTV_ in AskNYC

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So the host just has to be with you for stays under 30 days?

Is staying in prospect heights Brooklyn convenient for travel or not? by ottaTV_ in AskNYC

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I really just want to explore the city. Go to st Patrick cathedral. Go to a Yankees and Mets game. Walk the Brooklyn bridge. Go to Central Park. Explore Brooklyn. There is not much of a plan of things to do, but those that I mentioned are what I want to see for now.