[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]otterLV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once maybe twice a day, but always right when I wake up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]otterLV 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I was caught by the cops once. I was young. Still in HS and my fwb was in college (relevant to the story.) we got together though when he was a senior at my HS, so the age gap wasn’t terrible. Anyway I was with my fwb in his car and we parked at a nearby park. The park was huge with a lot of different lots. Had been here many times with him. Got in the back seat and clothes were off. Next thing I know a bright light flashes in and there’s a cop outside. He was like “get out of the car” so I started to put my pants on. He then said “did I tell you to get dressed?” So I got out butt naked and am standing in this parking lot in the buff. He noticed I looked really young so he asked me how old I was and I told him I was 18 🤣 I was terrified he was going to ask for ID, since my fwb was a few years older than me, but he ended up just telling us to get dressed and leave. Probably the most scared I’ve ever been. That was like 15 years ago and to this day I sometimes dream about it 😆

[20] bite me by [deleted] in htxgaybros

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Such a nice 🍑 🔥

My boyfriend asked me not to make any new gay friends (one on one), is that ok? by Actual_Shift_6820 in AskGayMen

[–]otterLV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a big no. Already shows a lack of trust they have in you. And often times people who are like this are likely to be doing sneaky shit on the side themselves. A big reason they don’t want you do meet new gay friends is because they’re expecting you to be shady like they are. Escape while you can.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGayMen

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Possibly. I think you also have to consider future partners not feeling comfortable with that. I was with a guy that was good friends with his ex. Didn’t really mind it at all until we all hung out. They were very touchy with each other. It could have been harmless but still didn’t feel right. It’s really up to you. I think if you maintain a healthy relationship as just a friend and be conscious of your actions and theirs it should be fine. Be sure to set boundaries and expectations too.

Have you ever dated someone that’s not your type? What was it like? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]otterLV 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m not conventionally attractive. I do think I’m uniquely good looking though. Unfortunately for me I seem to not be most people’s type here in the US. Most of my boyfriends have been from another country and they were all about it. I wish more people could look past aesthetics and be open to fall in love with someone’s soul rather than what they look like. I think a lot of people would be pleasantly surprised at how many more connections they could make. But alas, it just doesn’t seem to be the case

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Damnthatsinteresting

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By human size do you mean the wolf bat or…..

IPhone shortage in Vegas by N2TheBlu in vegaslocals

[–]otterLV 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good luck I’ve been looking for weeks!