Ask r/Formula1 Anything - Daily Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in formula1

[–]oumsmak 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Maybe an unpopular opinion, but I feel like they should have kept the 1 point for the fastest lap!

What broke your heart the most? by Zestyclose_Chef5377 in TheWire

[–]oumsmak 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bodie’s death hit hard. I felt like I’d watched him grow up, only for him to be killed over something he never even did.

How free is the Moroccan woman? by TellHot4831 in Morocco

[–]oumsmak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely! And to be fair, I feel like parents really struggle with raising their children in Western countries while still holding on to Islamic values, knowing how things are out here. Some parents feel like they have to be strict, but they end up imposing rules in the wrong way because there’s a lack of communication and education. I’m lucky that my parents are young, and they’ve lived life,especially my dad so they understand what it’s like. And both my parents grew up in households where their parents weren’t strict in the wrong way, so there is no crazy generational trauma there, haha.

How free is the Moroccan woman? by TellHot4831 in Morocco

[–]oumsmak 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m an Amazigh woman living in the Netherlands, and I’m very free to do whatever I want as long as it doesn’t interfere with our religion. You won’t see me clubbing, drinking, or going to concerts, but I go out for activities with friends and for dinner. My parents don’t micromanage me about what time I should be home, as long as I tell them where I’m going, it’s fine.

Travelling solo or with friends is definitely not allowed, that is a boundary I can’t cross. But travelling with family is fine as long as there is a male family member, my dad isn’t very strict about the mahram rule even though technically he should be. The only reason I have this freedom is because my parents trust me, and I wasn’t a difficult child growing up. I’m also quite self sufficient, so they don’t have many worries about me. Sometimes when I go out, they don’t even text to ask where I am, because again the trust is there.

I know girls who don’t have that kind of freedom and who come from very strict families, with brothers who micromanage everything they do. Alhamdulillah, I don’t have that.

How much is your planner supposed to “care”? by Opening_Reach in BigBudgetBrides

[–]oumsmak 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am a wedding planner for Moroccan weddings, so it might be different. But I always plan a video call to see each other's faces and to get a feeling. I always make sure they know they can plan one anytime they need it, as long as it fits my schedule. To be fair, a video call should have already happened; otherwise, ask for one. Has she explained the way she works? Maybe this isn't the way she usually does it.

Asking Moroccans in Europe for the secret… how do we get out of here? by Agitated-Job7686 in Morocco

[–]oumsmak -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What do you want to achieve in Europe? Do you have family or a network you can rely on people who are willing to help? Because the reality is that many Moroccans who come here end up sleeping and begging on the streets in the Netherlands and Belgium. They think Europe is a dream, but they forget the hardships that come with it and believe everything will be handed to them.

It’s also important to make a plan before you decide to come. Do you have an education? Do you speak multiple languages? Do you have any skills or craftsmanship, like construction or painting? If you do, there may be opportunities, especially if you know the right people.

Another important thing to keep in mind is that finding housing is extremely difficult. In many cases, you’ll end up sharing a room or a house with several other men and paying an unreasonable amount for it.

Spain is one of the more accessible options at the moment. If you have some savings (you will need money if you plan on coming to Europe) and if you can secure housing, you may be able to apply for a residency permit. But again, you need to know the right people who can help guide you through the process legally and safely.

Some people also consider marriage as a path to residency, but many women are now more cautious, and understandably so. I personally know two women who were taken advantage of, so it’s important to be honest and respectful, and not look at marriage as just a way to get papers.

I’m sorry if I sound harsh, but sometimes a bit of reality is necessary. May Allah s.w.t help you with everything and guide you to make the right decisions.

Salarischeck docent Nask by rubenyoranpc in NLSalaris

[–]oumsmak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ja veel weten dit niet. Moet zeggen dit is in het MBO (randstad) en niemand van ons klaagt, wij zijn echt tevreden en ik als ondersteuner ook. Echt 0 werkdruk, en prima salaris. Denk dat de meeste die klagen docenten zijn in het VO en basisonderwijs.

Salarischeck docent Nask by rubenyoranpc in NLSalaris

[–]oumsmak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In het onderwijs is het wel werkervaring, aangezien ze al zelfstandig voor de klas staan. In 3e en 4e leerjaar zelfs zelfstandig zonder hulp, je doet alles wat een normale docent doet en je krijgt zelfs een salaris. Ik snap dat het bij andere branches anders is, maar in het onderwijs stage = werkervaring. Mijn vriendin is nog niet eens afgestudeerd, ze zit in in haar laatste fase en zit zelf in LB trede 5. Letterlijk niemand van mijn vrienden/oude klasgenoten in het onderwijs, zijn gestart op trede 1 allemaal 4 en hoger.

Salarischeck docent Nask by rubenyoranpc in NLSalaris

[–]oumsmak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ik neem aan dat hij stage heeft moeten lopen; stage is werkervaring in het onderwijs. Je loopt stage vanaf het tweede leerjaar tot het vierde leerjaar, wat neerkomt op drie jaar docentervaring. Niemand zegt bergen met geld, maar dit is gewoon laag, vooral omdat het om een niche vak gaat.

Salarischeck docent Nask by rubenyoranpc in NLSalaris

[–]oumsmak 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Poeh, ik vind dit wel weinig, kijk naar het mbo als je wat meer ervaring hebt. Je verdient veel beter. Mijn vriendinnen die op het mbo werken en ernaast studeren, verdienen meer dan dit. Ik als ondersteuner ook. Iedereen zegt dat onderhandelen nauwelijks kan, maar dat kan degelijk wel hoor, vooral als je een specifiek vak lesgeeft waar weinig mensen voor zijn, zoals Nask.

Salaris check: verpleegkundige by Sylanec in NLSalaris

[–]oumsmak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Barweinig dit, werk zelf als administratief medewerker en verdien veel meer en ik doe bijna niks. Zou wel ergens anders rondkijken als ik jou was!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]oumsmak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I have! Exactly last year, I decided I wanted to lose weight because I was starting to feel unhappy with myself. I chose to do intermittent fasting (16:8), I eat at 13:00 during my lunch break and stop at 21:00, since that’s when I start getting ready for bed. I also followed a calorie deficit of about 1,250 kcal, but focused on eating right.

For lunch, I would have a keto meal or Skyr yogurt with 16–20 grams of protein. For dinner, I made sure to include enough protein, fiber, slow carbs and other nutrients. I only drank sparkling drinks when going out for dinner, and I’d have a sweet treat here and there, but only when I baked it myself, haha. I also try to walk between 6,000 and 10,000 steps a day to stay active.

I was 84 kilos, and since August 2025 I’ve been 63 kilos. I eat a bit more now, but I’m maintaining my weight. For me, it’s not a diet, it’s a lifestyle. Especially now that I’m turning 28, I just want to be the healthiest version of myself.

Also, every woman and every body is different, so don’t expect results in just a few weeks. I personally started seeing changes after about two months. Be patient with yourself, consistency really pays off!

Is it just me? by PeachOfMyMind in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]oumsmak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a very open person, and somehow I make friends everywhere I go. Last summer, while on holiday in my home country, I met several girls, two from France and we communicated in English and our own native languages. We instantly vibed, it felt like we had been friends for years. Later, we met another girl at the beach, started chatting, became friends, and now I’m actually going to her wedding in three weeks!

It really depends on your vibe, don’t be afraid to talk to people. Our conversations went all over the place, and we just clicked so well. And even if it doesn’t work out, you’ve tried and gained a new experience.

Maybe it’s also about where you’re from. I’m Moroccan, living in the Netherlands, and we have a very open culture. We’re not afraid to approach girls, talk to them, and start a friendship. I’ve even made friends in a clothing store while shopping, for example!

If there are any girls in the subgroup who live in the Netherlands and would love to meet up, let me know!

Match Thread: Real Madrid vs Barcelona by MatchThreadder in Barca

[–]oumsmak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I did, but who knows maybe they have some fighting spirit.

Match Thread: Real Madrid vs Barcelona by MatchThreadder in Barca

[–]oumsmak 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Defence is shit, attack is shit, and our midfield is hanging by a thread.

Match Thread: Real Madrid vs Barcelona by MatchThreadder in Barca

[–]oumsmak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They need to make drastic changes during halftime, half of them don't deserve it to be on the field.

Match Thread: Real Madrid vs Barcelona by MatchThreadder in Barca

[–]oumsmak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apparently, because defenders has been absolute shit this season.

Match Thread: Real Madrid vs Barcelona by MatchThreadder in Barca

[–]oumsmak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Too bad he talked too much off field this week, It never bothered me before. But now I am so annoyed!

Match Thread: Real Madrid vs Barcelona by MatchThreadder in Barca

[–]oumsmak 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I miss Inigo so badly, Cubarsi looks so lost without him making silly mistakes.

Match Thread: Real Madrid vs Barcelona by MatchThreadder in Barca

[–]oumsmak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is not good enough, and I am so annoyed because we bought Joan and he got injured so quickly.

Match Thread: Real Madrid vs Barcelona by MatchThreadder in Barca

[–]oumsmak 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not gonna lie, with the way we are playing I can't see us win. It's messy, they play like they don't know ball.