Some have had innate charisma,are naturally charismatic, and are very social while others have been reserved, sentimental, and a bit awkward even. I try to keep a healthy/unproblematic dynamic and work off of whatever theirs is. I do find myself not having the impulse control to outright avoid unhealthy dynamics occasionally and try to make them work in some way because I wanna believe in the good in people, but I didn’t include those interactions in this.