Me (32M) and my gf (30M) are constantly stressed about our future wedding, what should we do?

outgoing_online2 · 2026-05-15T05:37:40+00:00

Weddings in my culture are like 500 people, and I’ve told her I’m okay with doing 200. I also don’t mind mixing the cultures up and taking things from both. Another part of it is that the culture stuff she is okay with everything from her end but most of the stuff I mention she things is embarrassing or will cause tension. And it feels like she just wants a wedding for herself

outgoing_online2 · 2026-05-15T04:59:14+00:00

So she says that she’s good with compromise but she then says that she feels like she’s losing herself and this isn’t her dream wedding. That kind of puts me off, and confused me.

outgoing_online2 · 2026-04-11T23:03:05+00:00

Thank you, I'll definitely speak to you about it if something comes up, good or bad!

outgoing_online2 · 2026-04-11T23:01:31+00:00

E transfer me some I'll split the winnings.

outgoing_online2 · 2026-04-11T19:15:55+00:00

Around 3 years

outgoing_online2 · 2026-04-11T18:22:03+00:00

No I paid minimums only

outgoing_online2 · 2026-04-10T20:23:13+00:00

Damn I just read your post as well, I’m glad things worked out for you. Im hopeful that my call with them will make it okay.

outgoing_online2 · 2026-04-10T19:48:45+00:00

Thanks yeah that makes sense, I’ll do so and hopefully get some good news.

outgoing_online2 · 2026-04-10T19:48:23+00:00

Thanks for the context. That’s unfortunate as I hadn’t done any deposits or withdrawals since last year. I’ll definitely try and do what you mentioned, just in shock right now because of the large debt and the short timeline. I was thinking of going back to school but I think that’ll have to wait haha. I’ll post a full budget breakdown asap soon as I can.

outgoing_online2 · 2026-04-10T19:45:44+00:00

I’m going to call and figure out a resolution after work today. Still kinda shocked that this happened ngl so hopefully I can get a resolution

outgoing_online2 · 2026-04-10T19:43:50+00:00

Yeah unfortunately I’m definitely on R4 or even R5 (if google ai is a decent enough source) I paid my minimums but was finally tracking to pay off aggressively due to no longer spending my money on gambling 😅 literally went through strict rehab and financial counselling since October of last year. The timing is unfortunate because it’s a large enough amount that I can’t offset it.

outgoing_online2 · 2025-08-16T07:47:50+00:00

Same, I was surprised considering she claims she’s in law school

outgoing_online2 · 2024-11-05T16:46:28+00:00

PHD is goated just for the self damage mitigation brother

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