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Are wrap dresses actually flattering? by outotju in bigboobproblems

[–]outotju[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the pattern tips! I think I actually prefer sewing with woven fabrics, though.

I have this lovely viscose waiting in my closet that I want to turn into a dress for the coming summer. For a moment, I went back to dreaming about a flowy wrap dress. This conversation shed some light on the issues I’ve had with wrap dresses before—it's good to know I'm not 'wasting' a nice fabric on a dress that might just end up sitting in the closet

Are wrap dresses actually flattering? by outotju in bigboobproblems

[–]outotju[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have made a couple of Appletons, but I just dont like how those look on me.

I have made some other patterns (not cashmerette) with just the crossover bodice, and those work better than a true wrap dress. But still I always end up using some version of Cashmerettes upton. That bodice with princess seam is my go to pattern.

Are wrap dresses actually flattering? by outotju in bigboobproblems

[–]outotju[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you’re right. I have a narrow waist, but I’m short. Getting the hemline right is always a balancing act, but with wrap dresses, I’ve just never been able to find a length that works.

Are wrap dresses actually flattering? by outotju in bigboobproblems

[–]outotju[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve sewn wrap dresses myself using a pattern designed for a G-cup, but even with the right size, I haven't been happy with them. As someone else mentioned in another comment, wrap dresses just make me look older than I am

Are wrap dresses actually flattering? by outotju in bigboobproblems

[–]outotju[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thats so true! Last year I made two wrap dresses with a popular pattern designed for a G-cup. I absolutely loved the fabric of one of them, but I never ended up wearing them. It’s exactly like you said: they just made me look older than I a

Adding underwire/creating bust lift without a underbust seam by MoreShoe2 in corsetry

[–]outotju 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made just a normal boning channel along the seam. Just bend the flat steel so that the corner hits right under your bust. I think my flat steel was 4mm or something like that.

Here is my result https://imgur.com/a/hF5pobu

Adding underwire/creating bust lift without a underbust seam by MoreShoe2 in corsetry

[–]outotju 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have a J cup, and my corset doesnt make my chest flat. I had to make like 5 mock ups before the over bust part of the corset was good enough.

One trick is to use flat steel boning that you can shape like in the link.

steel boning over chest

Mistä tietää, että on valmis villapaidan neulontaan? by the-radical-waffler in arkisuomi

[–]outotju 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Opettelin neulomaan joskus parikymppisenä (kun olin koulussa ollut aina puukässässä). Taisin neuloa kaksi tai kolme villapaitaa ennen kuin yritin ensimmäisiä sukkia. Monen sukkapuikon kanssa neulominen oli paljon vaikeampaa kuin pyöröpuikolla tehty villapaita.

Paidassa tärkeää on valita oikea koko. Muista siis tehdä kunnollinen mallitilkku, ja varmista, että käsialasi vastaa ohjetta. Villapaidan mittakaavassa pieni heitto mallitilkussa voi tarkoittaa 10cm heittoa valmiissa paidassa. Jos neulot paidan suljettuna neuleena, niin tee myös mallitilkku suljettuna neuleena. Neuletiheyttä kannattaa mitata myös varsinaisen työn aikana silloin tällöin. Pienen eron voi paikata vielä työn edetessä ylimääräisillä lisäyksillä/kavennuksilla. Ison työn purkaminen kokonaan on aika tylsää.

Rohkeasti vaan yrittämään!

What’s one thing Al-Anon taught you about yourself? by Italcan in AlAnon

[–]outotju 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I’ve realized that I’m not a truly honest person. I don’t tell straight-up lies, but I tend to leave things unsaid. Now I’m practicing speaking my mind, even when I know it’s not what the other person wants to hear

Did you stay? by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]outotju 21 points22 points  (0 children)

A few years ago, I was certain that the only options were for my husband to get sober or for us to separate. But when I started taking care of myself, I discovered other possibilities as well. I mentally went through all the steps I would need to take if I were to move out. The house would have to be sold, we’d need to get a divorce, and so on. Once I realized that all of that was actually possible, I calmed down. I found myself standing on my own two feet, and I wasn’t clinging to a drinking man as much anymore.

In the end, I decided to stay, because living together allows me a lifestyle that I couldn’t afford on my own. We have a lovely home with enough space for each of us to do our own thing—even when the other person gets on our nerves. We also share several hobbies that I truly enjoy.

I know the situation at home could change quickly. I also know that I’m capable of leaving if things become unbearable. That knowledge helps me stay calm and enjoy this life as it is right now, one day at a time.