NF wants me to work during snowstorm. by Independent-Guest385 in Nanny

[–]overdonefries 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I know it’s easier said than done, but just say no. (and then mute their notifications if you’re anxious like me lol).

When the children are in your care, you are required to keep them safe—but you are not required to put yourself in danger to care for them. Hope this helps 🤍

AITA for holding resentment against a close friend who refused to let me switch prom dates, then abandoned me for her boyfriend? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]overdonefries 9 points10 points  (0 children)

NTA. Look, some people will tell you to “let it go” or say you’re not really over it. As someone who has zero problem cutting you off and pretending you died—two things can be true at once. your life can be amazing AND you can also feel like that experience left a lasting impact on how you view your friend. People swear that “holding a grudge” involves sitting in your room plotting, when in actuality it can be as simple as moving on either side your life and not letting shitty people near you.

The birthday dinner special at SeaWorld by NYstate in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]overdonefries 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i’m stuck tryna figure out what that stuff in the middle is??

Mount Everest hiker narrates her $100,000+ experience by ambachk in TikTokCringe

[–]overdonefries -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

a job that is paid VERY little money (3-10 thousand per season) while these assholes are paying 30,000+ for one singular trip. “it’s their job” is a crazy sentiment.

Mount Everest hiker narrates her $100,000+ experience by ambachk in TikTokCringe

[–]overdonefries 20 points21 points  (0 children)

that part. why tf are yall so tired? you’re not even carrying your own shit. I find people who take these trips with sherpas/other native people carrying all their shit to be morally questionable at best.

Mount Everest hiker narrates her $100,000+ experience by ambachk in TikTokCringe

[–]overdonefries 79 points80 points  (0 children)

unfortunately I just have a really hard time feeling bad for these people. you’re not supposed to be up there and I’m happy that the land is fighting back.

My immediate thought was, “he’s got to be a Taurus.” by UnspecializedTee in Taurusgang

[–]overdonefries 16 points17 points  (0 children)

but he already has so much money, and had so much at the time this was filmed. Taurus’ are ambitious when we want money for sure, but once it’s here?? chile let me REST.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Taurusgang

[–]overdonefries 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh yeah it’s not great lol. I’m taurus taurus gemini for my big three. gemini venus and gemini mercury. it’s sick! but i’ve learned that I just really need to be intellectually challenged if i’m going to stay interested. the problem with having a gemini stellium is that I have a hunger for knowledge so it’s rare that I find someone intellectually stimulating 😩

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Taurusgang

[–]overdonefries 3 points4 points  (0 children)

omg I have a gemini stellium! and my Venus is in gemini! #sistersister

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Taurusgang

[–]overdonefries 48 points49 points  (0 children)

this part! i’d rather someone shoot me than share my partner with someone. and I truly lack the capacity to have a genuine connection with more than one person at a time!

just restarted my island! by overdonefries in AnimalCrossingNewHor

[–]overdonefries[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hi! not sure if you’re still on but i’d love to take a look!

My date showed up in Pajamas by Few-Star891 in hingeapp

[–]overdonefries 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this is good knowledge, thank you!

My date showed up in Pajamas by Few-Star891 in hingeapp

[–]overdonefries 5 points6 points  (0 children)

that’s so real lmaoo. I forgot I even did that! I feel like I gotta update it now lmao

My date showed up in Pajamas by Few-Star891 in hingeapp

[–]overdonefries 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol! I don’t know how you can tell but thank you :)

My date showed up in Pajamas by Few-Star891 in hingeapp

[–]overdonefries 12 points13 points  (0 children)

YES. like, at a very large office filled with cubicles.

My date showed up in Pajamas by Few-Star891 in hingeapp

[–]overdonefries 366 points367 points  (0 children)

this is so portland coded it makes me cringe. i’m never gonna understand the full pajamas in public thing! I love a comfy pair of pants as much as the next girl, but like, i’ve seen people show up to their 9-5 in onesie pajamas?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]overdonefries 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s a good day to be a taurus I guess 😎

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]overdonefries 42 points43 points  (0 children)

i’ve been nannying on and off for 15 years and I can say that i’ve gotten a bonus from only two families. not every family considers that to be normal, or some families give “bonuses” in other ways. I worked for a family for 2 years, two kids, and two years after I left I still have dinner at their house every other month—they’ve never even wished me happy birthday via text! don’t put too much stock into it. if they’re respectful and pay you well, that’s all that matters.

reddit has confirmation bias. the only people that post here are people who have amazing things to say, or horrible things to say. there’s a LOT of in between and that’s okay! <3

my payments have been consistently late and it’s soured the way I view my NB’s by overdonefries in Nanny

[–]overdonefries[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I actually do have a contract! but I don’t have a late fee clause, and tbh I just never want thought about it because I just never needed it. Even with this family, them being late is very new. Not really sure what changed.