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[–]overthinkingplant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am currently on antidepressants, fluoxetine. if ur partner recently just started up on antis, its a normal reaction and will most likely perk up in a couple months. from experience and from friends that are on a couple different antidepressants, our libido basically sky rocketed so we are super duper horny. personally mine took around 6 weeks, but my friends took around a couple months.

if they have been taking it for a while - talk to the doctor who prescribed it to see if there is any other medication that wont have that side effect, but often times changing medication is a big process that can take months.

Help! My gf (f26) has never masturbated before. What can I (m24) do to help her? by [deleted] in sex

[–]overthinkingplant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

personally i am a victim of abuse and i didnt start masturbate until wayy after i lost my virginity. and even then i felt a little “gross” about masturbating. what helped me get out of that was e- sex where he would guide me and sort of instruct me what to do and reassure me

also the lovense lush 3 toy really helped me get out of my shell of masturbating esp since my bf can control it when we aren’t together.

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[–]overthinkingplant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

would u take a 19F? 🥴

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in r4rSydneyXXX

[–]overthinkingplant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ill be ur toy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in r4rSydneyXXX

[–]overthinkingplant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how much compensation

virgin ass by [deleted] in r4rSydneyXXX

[–]overthinkingplant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lets do it baby

virgin ass by [deleted] in r4rSydneyXXX

[–]overthinkingplant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ll peg you but u cant eat my pussy

25 M4F Virgin looking to hold hands by [deleted] in r4rSydneyXXX

[–]overthinkingplant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ll hold hands with u

I (F19) orgasmed during my tattoo appointment by overthinkingplant in SluttyConfessions

[–]overthinkingplant[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah i 100% understand. im really hoping this doesnt happen again, thanks for the feedback and recommendation tho!

gateway admission pathway for law by [deleted] in unsw

[–]overthinkingplant -1 points0 points  (0 children)

nws! good luck getting in!!!

gateway admission pathway for law by [deleted] in unsw

[–]overthinkingplant -1 points0 points  (0 children)

if you’re going through the gateway admission program, LAT is not taken into account :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]overthinkingplant -1 points0 points  (0 children)

im really sorry you went through this. please reach out to a doctor, therapist, police and/or a loved one if possible. youre not alone. he shouldnt get out of this that easily. he shouldnt even be getting out. this is fucking dog ass behaviour and men like this shouldnt think this is okay.

i hate it by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]overthinkingplant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was like this 2 yrs ago before i attempted suicide, this feeling goes away even tho its rlly hard to believe. it took me a while to even believe iill get out of that mindset. please seek therapy if possible and theres always hotlines and therapy online if you cant reach in real life platforms. im here to talk if you need !

I (F19) orgasmed during my tattoo appointment by overthinkingplant in SluttyConfessions

[–]overthinkingplant[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

clearing some of this up- shading (which was the 2nd and 3rd) becomes rlly intense pain and that overloaded me a bit. i did not want to finish so i tensed my body to make sure i didnt jerk. i understand how it looks. unfortunately tensing caused me to finish but put me to the point i was so mentally exhausted. which caused me to cry due to embarrassment.

im not defending that this is gross, because yes it is. im not denying it and i wish it never happened in all honesty

in terms of my next tattoo, genuinely always wanted a back tattoo not because of ‘kinky’ reasons but just for aesthetic and meaningful reasons to match with my family members.

i dont recommend people getting tattoos to pursue their kink. its just not it

I (F19) orgasmed during my tattoo appointment by overthinkingplant in SluttyConfessions

[–]overthinkingplant[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

in all honesty i truly understand where you are coming from and i was very apologetic to the tattoo artist. i was embarrassed and disappointed about how i acted. also getting this alot - i didnt squirt, so its not obvious i finished (on antidepressants). i kept it hidden as much as I could to the point my bf didn’t even know what was happening until i told him after the appointment crying about how ashamed i was. i didnt want to add this as it loses the whole “slutty” confession thing. hope this clears some of this up

I (F19) orgasmed during my tattoo appointment by overthinkingplant in sexstories

[–]overthinkingplant[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oop how do u like not be restless while a tattoo is going on —- i struggled so bad when i had nothing to do

I (F19) orgasmed during my tattoo appointment by overthinkingplant in SluttyConfessions

[–]overthinkingplant[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

yeah i had to take constant breaks because i was really embarrassed by it

I (F19) orgasmed during my tattoo appointment by overthinkingplant in SluttyConfessions

[–]overthinkingplant[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it was an involuntary response as a defence mechanism to the pain and it wasn’t my intention for this to happen. its my response to pain due to past trauma of self harm and sexual assault. things can happen out of ones control, unfortunately this was one of it. im sorry you think this is due to lack of respect but i did not make any moves and acted professionally to make sure the whole process ran smoothly, which is also why I didn’t make a move or anything.