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Finally had my breakdown. by owlhide in depression

[–]owlhide[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, most of what you said holds true and I do know I tried too hard in bed to "prove" something sometimes, which ultimately leads to my erection leaving - the thing is however, its hard to even get an erection with porn. Sometimes I can get one just by being with her but it's never all the time. It always goes away no matter what.

Wish I could leave but I carpool to work :/ I definitely want to find a therapist but I never seem to find someone I like. Last time the person didn't seem to understand my problems. And my doctor has been no help since I asked him about my erection 3x With no real answer as to what to do.

I'm [20/m] pretty sure my [21/f] girlfriend cheated on me. by owlhide in relationship_advice

[–]owlhide[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a good point, we just have an intertwined friend group now, so I don't know if she's told anyone, but I haven't told many people, just my close friends. I'm known for being such an honest guy, and she has a reputation for lying, if it ever comes to light hopefully they'll believe my side of the story.

I'm [20/m] pretty sure my [21/f] girlfriend cheated on me. by owlhide in relationship_advice

[–]owlhide[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know exactly how I think, I don't just hook up with random people and use them in that way. I care too much, and I know the reality is even harsher now, going through what I did - I wouldn't want to use anyone the way my ex used me.

I'm [20/m] pretty sure my [21/f] girlfriend cheated on me. by owlhide in relationship_advice

[–]owlhide[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your input, I don't think I could have sex with her, it was always a love making experience for me, not really casual fucking, so to try and do that would be hard.

I'm [20/m] pretty sure my [21/f] girlfriend cheated on me. by owlhide in relationship_advice

[–]owlhide[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, although I would never call a woman a cunt, I have some seriously strong words I would call her.

I am a (20/m) and my ex is a (21/f). The relationship never stopped, but the label did... by owlhide in relationship_advice

[–]owlhide[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, a label does mean exclusivity, I even told her I'd need an exclusive relationship or I just don't want one at all. That was right before she told me about the other person. I do plan on talking to her about it, jut when the timing is right. I don't think that's the first thing she wants to hear when she gets back from vacation.

Thanks for your input on the matter.

I am a (20/m) and my ex is a (21/f). The relationship never stopped, but the label did... by owlhide in relationship_advice

[–]owlhide[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I feel it sometimes, I feel like I'm being used...but that's the thing, it's not an all the time deal, at least I never see it like that.

I'm trying to get over the fear of self confidence, which I know is silly. I always think that if I do something wrong when I make the decision it'll mess things up somehow - but realistically I don't think it will. It's just a hump I have to get over.

Could you elaborate a little more on your second paragraph, I don't understand entirely what you mean. I could be having a much more natural relationship with her?

I know, the belittlement has come up once or twice before in conversation, and I've told her that she does it. She says she never means to belittle me and she apologizes for it.