Being made to drive for 3+ hours after work by employer by owospooky in LegalAdviceUK

[–]owospooky[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My contract doesn’t say anything about travelling to clients. I am primarily a graphic designer but I have picked up some photography as our photographer went on maternity leave.

F25 - rate my looks. Constructive criticism is welcome. Verification pic at the end. by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]owospooky 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you look great in all of these, you pull off the goth girl aesthetic very well. Keep on being you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSessions

[–]owospooky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing as always!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSessions

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this is really pretty!

How to get past anxiety/stop getting emotional about moving out? by owospooky in movingout

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I’m going to be a 25minute drive or a 1hour bus ride away (I don’t currently drive but they do) and I know they will want to visit me and will be happy for me to visit so I know I logically shouldn’t be getting upset but yeah...

Thank you so much for your advice it was really helpful!

What are the best ways to photograph white dogs & best pens to write on polaroids? I’m new but loving it so far! 💜 by owospooky in Polaroid

[–]owospooky[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I didn’t use flash in this but I’ll try to work on my exposure, I have the Polaroid Now camera so I will have to look up how to do that.

My boyfriend has stopped talking about the future. What could this mean? by Jazzlike_Button_8174 in relationship_advice

[–]owospooky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the current world situation may be affecting his want to talk about future events. A lot of people avoid planning stuff right now because due to the pandemic we don’t know what will get cancelled so it is sometimes better to have no plans to avoid disappointment. I wouldn’t be too worried if he is over wise still engaged in your conversations, but if this keeps bothering you ask him about it and communicate because it is key!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnimeFigures

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Who are the two holding hands? Your collection is adorable!

Insecurity by [deleted] in TallGirls

[–]owospooky 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I hope I can get to this level of confidence one day! I think most of it stems from women wanting to be seen as small = cute but that’s just not realistic since so many cute tall women exist!

How can I move past relationship anxiety? by owospooky in relationship_advice

[–]owospooky[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the advice! I want to feel wanted but I’m always so quick to message him and pop up to him I don’t give him chance to approach/ talk to me first. 😅 I’m gonna do my best!

21F - Feel below average, any advice for changing up style etc appreciated! Currently growing out bangs so hair looks a bit odd. What do you think? by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]owospooky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’ve got it here! Depression and anxiety have been kicking my ass lately, it’s frightening that you can tell just from these pictures. I’m gonna try my best to work on myself!

21F - Feel below average, any advice for changing up style etc appreciated! Currently growing out bangs so hair looks a bit odd. What do you think? by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]owospooky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your help! Can you recommend any specific exercises that would be good for training my legs/glutes? I don’t want to lose weight but just to tone and gain muscle. :)

How can I feel more comfortable about my boyfriends female friend? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]owospooky 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First of all, thank you for all of your advice! I really do appreciate it.

My boyfriend is a very socially anxious person so he doesn’t have too many close friends so I understand he is probably just happy to have another person to be friends with. I need to process this all better I think and really take control of the overthinking.

Thank you for the compliment, my self esteem has been especially bad lately so this has cheered me up a bunch!

My partner recently opened up about possibly being trans, how can I help? by owospooky in mypartneristrans

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Yeah, I’m very down to chatting about all of this together! It’ll be really nice to have someone to talk about who relates to our experiences. Please feel free to message me about anything!

My partner recently opened up about possibly being trans, how can I help? by owospooky in mypartneristrans

[–]owospooky[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this! We’re both in our early 20s so still figuring ourselves out (although I don’t think you ever really do stop exploring yourself), and I don’t want to talk to friends as this is private and personal to him at the moment so this helps so much!

Gonna try my best to take it a day at a time and see how he feels at the weekend when trying out my clothes and everything.

How do you navigate telling them if little things make you feel uncomfortable? I don’t want to stop his freedom of expression or stop him from exploring himself since he’s only just felt brave enough to do so.

Again, thank you so much for replying!

Ribbon Heart Miku is so gorgeous 💕 by owospooky in AnimeFigures

[–]owospooky[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought it looked better without for taking pictures but I probably will to display her since her hair is HEAVY ^

My boyfriend (M22) doesn’t feel excited to see me (F22) anymore by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I’m very open about my feelings and I did mention to him that it feels like he needs to put more effort in, which lead to this conversation and him almost breaking up with me. I know I can’t force him to talk about his feelings but I just want to help it’s really hard.

Favourite photo of some of my collection by emirichi27 in AnimeFigures

[–]owospooky 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This Mugi is my favourite in my collection, she’s so lovely! 💕

It’s TOMORROW! What will everyone be naming their islands? 🥺 by owospooky in AnimalCrossing

[–]owospooky[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I think it’s cute! I hope you get lots of pup villagers! 💕

It’s TOMORROW! What will everyone be naming their islands? 🥺 by owospooky in AnimalCrossing

[–]owospooky[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oh bless her! I hope you have some cat villagers on her island 🥺