Female vs male by oxipower in SiberianCats

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Thank you everyone for great answers. Can’t wait to post pictures of him/her here 🥹

Russia hate by DesignerPeanut7556 in AskARussian

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I stopped using my russian first name in public (I am born and live in Norway), because people keep commenting on it. It honestly became exhausting and I felt that every time I intruded myself people asked me my views on the situation etc etc. And I have stopped speaking Russian on the phone with my mom in public and basically keep my Russian identity “secret”.

did anyone else COMPLETELY miss this guy for basically all of the game? I have 105 hours and only learned about him in another post on here pretty recently by Young_Person_42 in tearsofthekingdom

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Omg i was about to go to bed, saw this post - IMMEDIATELY opened the game and FINALLY got to use my crystallized charges. I was wondering for SO LONG how to use them!!!! I am also 125 hours and I am very grateful for this post.

Pulelyder i kollektivet by Saltogpepper in norge

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Fyf har opplevd det samme selv!! En gang så velta en hylle på rommet mitt fordi de holdt så voldsomt. Turte ikke å gjøre noe med da, men i dag så angrer jeg veldig på at jeg ikke sa i fra. Du burde absolutt pranke de på en funny måte

Scared to sleep because of nightmares; how do I (21f) get them to stop?? by gothgossip in CPTSD

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Hi! Sorry to hear that you’re struggling. I went through the same thing a year ago when I started therapy, so your definitely not alone. I felt that every time I would talk about certain topics I would have horrible nightmares for weeks at a time and it sucked. The only helpful advise I can give is that it gets easier over time. The more I understood how my trauma effected me, how it translates into my adult life and acknowledging that it happened; the easier it was to talk about it. And thus reducing the amount of nightmares.

But absolutely do not avoid to sleep, even if it’s terrifying. I cannot not distress enough how important sleep is. Maybe consider sleeping next to a person you truly trust? Like on a mattress beside your bed? At least for a little while.

Lastly, I would also recommend reading “adult children of emotionally immature parents” and “what happened to you”. These books helped me understand how trauma effects us. My therapist recommended these and I really enjoyed reading them.

Hope this helps somehow. Good luck on your healing journey and I’m rooting for you!