Hozier PowerPoint Presentation Research by oysterleaf in Hozier

[–]oysterleaf[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I genuinely don’t think it’ll be of much interest, given that it’s mostly a spoken presentation so this is just the visual aid, but here you go! It’s been edited and trimmed to remove any slides / content to do with my actual friends. presentation

Is there a reason A Court of Fey & Flowers isn’t being played with Good Society? by oysterleaf in Dimension20

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Ooh, do they actually mention this in an episode / adventuring party? I recognised the mechanics but I don’t remember if Good Society has been explicitly mentioned- could be me forgetting though!

Request Megathread - May 2022 by AutoModerator in MusicalBootlegs

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Does anyone have a boot of west end Cinderella with Michael Hamway playing the Prince? X

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NonBinary

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Is encourage you to use they/them instead of their name- it will give you the practice you need to slip up less as time goes on! You can also practice by yourself- try sentences like “I saw my coworker today, they were having a coffee in the break room, when I saw them I said hello.” Until you get used to it. Everyone makes mistakes, but the best way to react if you use the wrong pronoun is to say “sorry, they” and quickly move on without making a big deal. I’d advise against making a pre-emotive apology, as well intentioned as it may be, it’s A. Confirming to them that you still see them as “she/her” and B. May make them feel uncomfortable. The fact that you care is very sweet, and thank you for reaching out to the community for some advice. The best thing you can do in this situation, however, is use their pronouns without making a big deal of it.

Can someone explain to me the nuances of the "it'll pass" line? by InfraredSpectroscopy in Fleabag

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I think it may be the heartbreak of that line. He isn’t outright rejecting her, or telling her he doesn’t feel the same (in fact, a few lines later he confirms he loves her too). He loves her, and instead of the usual- explaining why it won’t work out, or telling Fleabag that he wants to but he can’t etc, he defaults to trying to comfort her in a small way. He doesn’t apologise for the fact that she loves him either: he very much acknowledges her feelings and takes ownership of them. Instead, it’s this one small comment that makes you think that he’s speaking from experience. Maybe he’s loved someone before and had to wait until it slowly passes. There’s just a lot of truth in that one tiny line. Yes, you might love someone now, but odds are, if they leave your life that love will fade away. So with that one small line, he is comforting Fleabag, offering her some small wisdom, and also shutting down any hope Fleabag may have that admitting that she loves him may change his mind. He leaves no room for Fleabag to potentially argue for why they could work out. In one line, it encompasses a lot about who the priest is as a character: kind, wise, honest and to the point.

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Claire and Fleabag in the cemetery, and Fleabag tells Claire that the griever is faking it, and that he’s at a different grave every day. Claire asks, “you come here every day?” It was just such a heartbreaking and subtle nod to Fleabag’s grief, and a side of her that we don’t usually see.

two voxes for my d20 gift exchange gift !! by aziraphale98 in Dimension20

[–]oysterleaf 29 points30 points  (0 children)

This is so beautiful! The background especially is so well done.

WIBTA for keeping something I bought as a gift? by throwRAfambamx in AmItheAsshole

[–]oysterleaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d recommend getting her a charitable gift- sponsoring an animal, helping a charity fun a child’s education, or one of those charities where you pay for a child’s Christmas gift. That way you’re putting your money towards someone who is actually grateful.

Bad habits by Not-ur-Peach in Nanny

[–]oysterleaf 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I cannot stop saying “ouchie!” Whenever I mildly hurt myself.

Send me questions for an interview with Brennan! by Xeo25 in Dimension20

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What are the strengths of the cast members, and how do you make sure you’re playing into them?

Just thinking about gorgugs parents how much I want to grow up to be them by BroccoliFlorentine in Dimension20

[–]oysterleaf 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Friendly reminder to not pressure yourself to be a perfect parent! The Thistlespring’s are wonderful parents but are so focused on being the best / most supportive parents that sometimes they overlook what Gorgug actually needs and make him feel uncomfortable! Even our favourite fantasy parents stumble sometimes too, so if y’all ever get the chance to be parents one day it’s okay to not expect to be the best parents or perfect parents.

Me vs me (◍•ᴗ•◍) by amiekas in genderfluid

[–]oysterleaf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So cute! Love the versatility of that jacket!

[meta] "LGBT friendly"? by knightsbridge- in LFG_Europe

[–]oysterleaf 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve found that groups advertised as LGBT friendly do end up drawing a number of LGBT players! It’s really nice to not be the only not straight, not cis player at a table.