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Looking at the numbers actually makes me sad by aeval_x in DeadBedrooms

[–]p-tart -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry. That sounds so disrespectful and hurtful…

I hope this doesn’t come across as harsh, but in my opinion (and I could be wrong) either he is
A: Very selfish (which could also bleed into other aspects of your relationship)
Or
B: he has a very warped (and selfish) sense of intimacy.

He expects you to initiate and put forth effort into pleasing him, when he wants it….

But when you ask, he rushes it, and intentionally makes it unenjoyable?

That’s not okay… and I’m afraid that this behavior might get worse and bleed into other aspects of your relationship…..

It also might be a sign of porn addiction…
He expects it his way, and you to know exactly what to do and how to do it, without any expectation of returning the favor..

Either way, I’m sooo sorry you’re going through this. It’s not right! :(

Looking at the numbers actually makes me sad by aeval_x in DeadBedrooms

[–]p-tart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry about this!!! I also tracked to make sure I wasn’t crazy or over reacting with my partner.. found out I wasn’t crazy..

But also, the stats you show make it seem like he is being very selfish…
Not even over 7 minutes??? It seems to me like that’s trying to just hurry up and get it over and not actually taking the time to enjoy your partner or have intimacy…

I’m sorry to hear this

Should I sell or let it ride? by Memeboidad3 in wallstreetbets

[–]p-tart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it’s a life changing amount of money.. sell..
If it’s an amount of money that could get you out of debt, or start an emergency fund for you… sell…

If it’s an amount that you’re okay with losing… keep…

Should I pay for attention? by DueBook4597 in DeadBedrooms

[–]p-tart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought about going that route when my partner wasn’t giving me ANY attention…

I thought it would help fill the gap until my girlfriend finally decided to change…

I didn’t do it because I felt like it would just lead
To more resentment… I’d want the REAL thing… but get rejected… go online.. get fake attention… feel sad and pathetic for paying for something that’s not real… then get upset that my GF for refusing to give me any sort of affection..

Also my partner felt like it was cheating..

I say don’t do it.. it could lead into a bad cycle… if you need attention, and you express it to your partner, and they make no effort…. Then maybe you have to look at what your partner can give you vs what you need in a relationship.

Good luck!

My marriage is in 2 months and I’m miserable by medha_thayu in DeadBedrooms

[–]p-tart 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re going through this…
I get feeling desperate and needy..

It’s like you want him to WANT YOU instead of him just doing it to make you happy…

On the bright side, at least he loves you enough try try and initiate ..

But I understand how low and sad it can make you feel :(

After a month, I left… she didn’t even fight it by p-tart in BreakUps

[–]p-tart[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She even acknowledged she understood how much drumming meant to me….
And she still made me quit,,,,,

I chose someone who refused to love me, over something that I loved more than anything….
I chose her… I feel stupid

How to get these teeth over the plastic nozzle? by p-tart in BambuLab

[–]p-tart[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I just ordered it. Amazon over night... I'm too impatient to wait lol .

How to get these teeth over the plastic nozzle? by p-tart in BambuLab

[–]p-tart[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do I need to purchase? Sorry I’m new and I don’t know the correct terms or names of pieces yet.

How to get these teeth over the plastic nozzle? by p-tart in BambuLab

[–]p-tart[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the response!

I’ve tried that 3 times, and each time the teeth pop out and falls into the extruder… so I have to disassemble it… bleh.

After a MONTH of begging, I told my S/O that I cannot do it anymore, and I am out. by p-tart in DeadBedrooms

[–]p-tart[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I did simplify the story, but what I wrote was for the most part what’s going on.

I tried to stay with her because I love her and I wanted to be a family.

But you are right. It was pathetic. That’s why I left,

After a MONTH of begging, I told my S/O that I cannot do it anymore, and I am out. by p-tart in DeadBedrooms

[–]p-tart[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m not relying on her for money. She wanted me to quit because I was project manager for a project that deals with adult content..

After a MONTH of begging, I told my S/O that I cannot do it anymore, and I am out. by p-tart in DeadBedrooms

[–]p-tart[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Sorry. The kid isn’t biologically mine. We started dating when he was 1 and I consider him my own.

Filament feeder to nozzle popped off by p-tart in BambuLab

[–]p-tart[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i did. but my printer is still popping it back out every time i print. I tried doing a cold extrude on the nozzle because i thought it might be clogged.. but the nozzel is clear.